how to tell ur parents???

Hi Alyssa!
Yikes, sounds like you have quite the situation.
Take the test, ok? You don’t have to worry about how to tell them until you know for sure.
Actually, you might still want to consider writing them a letter and then leaving for a few hours to give them time to get out their first emotions.
Sometimes what helps is to say things like how scared you are and stuff like that.
If you don’t want to write a letter you could ask to go out to supper with them and then tell them at the restaurant (maybe write them a note and have them read it there) because they can’t act TOO bad in a restaurant. 😉
No matter how you decide to tell them, I promise that you will feel ten times better when they know and you don’t have to hide it.
But like I said, no need to worry about it until you take the test. 😉
Good luck, hun! Let us know how it goes!

P.S. That must have been so hard! You said that your parents still haven’t gotten over it, but how are you doing?

Telling the parents is hard…. Im 18 and it was hard for me to tell my parents because the babies dad hit me and things and made life hell really… So one day i built up the courage went to work came home and then sat down and told my parents well dad really mum already new… He asked me if i was gettin rid of it and i said no and then asked who the father was and he got very angry and told me to get out of the room… i went to my room and cried for ages…. He didnt speak to me for nearly a week i think it was… But no matter how u tell them they generally always come around … Your carrying there grandchild and the thought of that is amazing even if at first they are upset… They are only tryin to look out for you an do whats in your best interest… I hope this helps you choose a way too tell them.
Best of luck
Angela

Hi,

I told my mum when i couldnt hide it any more with my first baby, she was more pissed off that I hid it.

I told her the moment I knew for baby number 2, i even told her that i was trying for the second one, she wasnt happy for me to be trying but she didnt want to stop me.

You dont know till you try.

usually moms notice that right away.when my cousin was pregnant, her mom found out even before she told her.

It depends some women have it only for the first trimester, then there are women like my mother who had it for the whole 9 months even while she was in labor. So cross your fingers you’re not like that, eating cracker in the morning before you doing anythin helps too.

I’m sure you’re scared, and probably confused, but you need to tell your parents. It would be so much easier than to have them find out some other way by accident. They would probably be way more upset than if you’d told them yourself. And you need help, you need prenatal vitamins, and prenatal care, and you need your mother. Every woman who is pregnant needs her mother, especially when surrounded with special circumstances. But just remember, any choice that will be made, is yours and YOURS alone. Don’t let anyone tell you they can make you have an abortion or take your baby away. You have rights sweetheart. Good luck!