Hey Vicky,
Well, I would guess that you are not at a high risk of pregnancy. However, if the guy you were with had semen on his hands when he fingered you, then you may have a chance for pregnancy.
The only way to know for sure if you are pregnant is to take a pregnancy test. Here is a link to a website that can run a free and confidential pregnancy test for you. http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp or you can call 1-800-395-HELP. At the website all you have to do is type in your zip code and a list of centers will appear. Just call the center and tell them that you need a free pregnancy test run. They will be happy to help you.
I can tell that you are flipping out right now. I don’t blame you and I think I would be too. But you know, life is a series of lessons. You may have messed up on this one, but I believe there is something valuable you can learn from this. Sex (or sexual activities) outside of marriage are not as enjoyable as they might seem. But I could be way out of line here. You may have been pressured to do this with him against your will. If that is the case, you should tell someone what happened. Don’t let him get away with this. He’ll just do it again if you don’t take a stand. Stay far away from him, and always be aware of your surroundings, so this does not happen again.
April