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Hi my name is Codie.
I am only 14 years old and I am pregant. Me and my
boyfiend want a baby more than anything right now.
I just don’t want his family or my family to hate us.
How could we tell are familys.Well, I am 19 years old, and I am in the United States Air Force, and I am 5 months pregnant. I was scared to tell my parents that I was pregnant, cause I graduated just last year, just joined the military last year, and I am not married. Honestly, I am going to be very frank with you. You can’t predict how your parents are going to react. In your case you are only 14 years old, so you and I both know they are not going to take it lightly. You can’t change what has happened already. A baby is a gift from God, and there is alot of responsibility that comes along with it. I know being the oldest child practically raising my 2 brothers and sister is just as hard, probably harder. Just keep your head up, finish school and become somebody, at least beat the odds. I have a stable life and I know this is going to mentally challenging. But stay strong for yourself as well as your baby. You and your baby are going to grow up together. It’s not easy!!! But stay strong.
Telling people that you are expecting a baby is hard, even when you’re considered "old enough" to have one. Becoming a mother is wonderful experience and regardless of what someone else thinks, trust in your heart that you’ve been chosen to carry that child for a reason. Someone up there wants your little one to be here just as much as you do. Just make sure you stand firm in your decision, even when other people will have differing opinions. It won’t be easy, but just remember you have to be strong, not only for yourself and your boyfriend, but for the little person the two of you created together! People will doubt, but prove them wrong by showing your dedication to your decision. Good Luck!
14 is so young. Please really think about this. My husband and I are 27 and 28 and we are scared about trying to a have a baby. We want a baby very much too. Again please really think about this and make the best decision for you and your baby.
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