What ever you do dont push him. that is the one thing that pushes guys away. Sit down talk to him. more like let him talk. sometimes guys are scared about more than money. Ask him what it is that bothers him most and just listen. then ask questions. My husband and I were not married when we had our first child. I gave my self a day to absorb what he said. When you understand more it slowly (and I do mean slowly) makes it easier for him to understand. and remember men just like babies need patience.