Hey everyone. Ya, well, I thought I was pregnant, but I found out that I am not and it is very depressing because I have already lost one child.
I was 14 and I was pregnant. I went to the doctor to hear my baby’s heartbeat but they couldn’t find it. So I was sent for an ultrasound and found out that I wasn’t going to be able to have the baby because I had what you call a molar pregnancy. They told me that it was no one’s fault but that the baby was not able to grow and that I had a chance of getting cancer. So I had to lose my baby and that is very sad. It would have been born August 28 of this year. And I still long for my loss.
So now it has been about a year and I really thought that I was pregnant, but I was 2 weeks late, but it didn’t turn out that way… I will be 16 soon and I wanna try and have a baby, but my boyfriend isn’t ready. We don’t use protection but only the pull out method and I wanna be pregnant…..
So everyone hope for the best… and this is to all you girls that is pregnant. I beg you to not have an abortion. You will regret it for the rest of your life. A child is a gift and you have to treat it they way you would want to be treated…. Always remember that if you’re pregnant, your life will not be over. It’s only the start of something new….
This is a really good website for young parents.
I am only 18 and am expecting my first baby on the 31st, so not too long now. And I am really excited, although it’s not all been easy. My mum kicked me out when she found out. I never wanted to have children… and all that, and it is really tough to cope with. For some more than others, I guess but why dwell on it? Having children is the most rewarding thing ever. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be here, would we? Our parents love us no matter what may of happened in the past, so it can’t be all bad. I just wish people would see the positive side to having children, whether they were planned or not. And no matter what age you are, if you’re mature enough to have sex in the first place, then you should be mature enough to cope with whatever else may happen too, or am I way off the mark with this?
Be positive; it makes life so much better! Fair play, I am very scared but I would not change having a baby for the world.
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So I’m sad. I just found out that at about 12 weeks of your pregnancy or around there your baby will sometimes silently cry.
That broke my heart because it’s like you can’t do anything about it cuz you don’t know when they are crying and you can’t comfort them. That made me so so sad cuz it’s like I can’t comfort my baby! But my boyfriend said that the baby is comforted because this is the closest your child will ever be to you because my baby is actually inside of me.
Ya, anyways, I thought that was sad. I still haven’t told my parents yet. I will soon. I just need to be ready and I’m not yet. But soon.
Hi, I’m 17 years old and just found out I’m 3 weeks and 4 months pregnant.
My mom kicked me out and I have no place to go. My boyfriend doesn’t even have his own place, so I’m solo…
Anyways, I guess I’ll try to keep you updated…
Baby, I got you on my mind isn’t just the title of a song. I really was thinking about a second baby — my friends still can’t believe how absolutely incurably clucky I am, nor my wish to have five more children when I already know how much work one is.
But I’ve thought about it. It isn’t the fact that it isn’t financially or emotionally viable — oh, it is, especially financially; I’ve being in the welfare system long enough to know how this absolutely retarded system works. It isn’t that I couldn’t handle another child — I know I could. It had nothing to do with that.
I just thought, would I really be able to do something like that to another human being? Would I really be able to go that low? How could I look that child in the eye? Are these my values, or is it only the analytical realist part of me talking?
I’m not going to have a second baby, because I just wouldn’t be able to do something like that. I’m not focusing on finding Mr. Right either — he’ll stumble into my life when it’s time; and if he never does, well, sucks to be me ay.
I guess for now I’m going to focus on my baby boy, on my career (the non-existent one that doesn’t want to get anywhere off the ground, but I’m still trying lol), and just having a good time in life with my friends and watching my son grow.
For now that’s going to be my life. I know I REALLY want a second child, I REALLY REALLY want a second child. But I don’t think that’s really up to me to decide — I guess it’s up to God. So for now….well, there’s not going to be baby number two. And the future…well, nobody knows what that’s going to look like anyway.
I AM SIXTEEN YEARS OLD AND I’M 4 MONTHS PREGNANT….
WHEN I FIRST HEARD THAT, I BROKE DOWN CRYING AND THOUGHT THAT MY WORLD WOULD NEVER BE THE SAME. I FELT THAT I WAS GOING TO GO DOWNHILL FROM THERE ……I THOUGHT OF HAVING AN ABORTION BUT MY MOM SAID THAT WOULD BE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE CAUSE I WOULD BE INCOMPLETE ALL OF MY LIFE AND THAT HOLE IN MY HEART WILL NEVER BE FILLED.
NOW I UNDERSTAND THAT THIS CHILD WOULD BE A BLESSING AND NOT A MISTAKE…….BOUT NOW, I FACE THE ONE THING IN MY LIFE THAT I’M SO WEAK TO LET GO OF AND THAT IS PEOPLE IN THEIR OPINION ABOUT ME AND MY BABY. I TAKE EVERYTHING TO HEART AND I KNOW THERE WILL BE A LOT OF PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT ME…….,…..
