Hey my name is Keesha and im 16 years old and pregnat…im only 1 month…and i still haven’t told my parents…im still scared of what they might say…b/c the guy im pregnet by is 25 years old and my mother don’t like him…and he really isn’t the guy i wanna be pregnet by either it was an accident…i kno my mom is going to kick me out when i tell her and i would have no
were to go but to the babys daddy’s…i kno he would take care of us but i don’t love him…i don’t kno if i even like him…im so confused and i am stuck…i have been searching the net all day trying to find sum advice…i need to kno how i can tell my parents…i kno abortion is not even an option i would never do that…that is murder in my eyes…im so scared…i am in love with this other guy but i kno he won’t have me when he learns im pregnet…idk tho he has a 2yr old…but she lives with her mom….but anyway if anyone can help me i would appericate it extremly…someone please help…i need all the advice i can get….thx much…Keesha
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Hi Keesha,
I am not sure how long ago you wrote this blog sorry, but I just want to say that I am here to love and support you and your baby. First off let me say thank you for choosing life – for both yourself and your baby.
Secondly, I would highly recommend getting in touch with a local pregnancy support centre in your area. The link to the worldwide directory is here: https://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide-directory. They will provide you with great resources – feel free to talk them about your worries with telling your parents. You are not alone!!
I know it is difficult, but know that if your parents love you, they will support you through your pregnancy. We should feel no fear in opening up those we love and those we know love us.
Know that I am praying for you and your bubba.
Love,
Maria
I understand your situation. And I am sorry that you are in it. My story was similar, only I was 17, and I didn't have someone that I was in love with. Always remember that if your new man can't except that you are pregnant with another mans child, he is not worth your love! The best thing for you to do is be honest. Tell him the truth about the baby and how you feel, you never know how people will react until you are honest with them. The same goes for your parents. Sometimes they surprise you. And know that no matter how mad a parent might be at their childs' choices, they will always love you and forgive those choices. Good luck Keesha.