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In Spite Of Who We Are

In Spite Of Who We Are

You are mistaken if you think that God looked down from heaven at a little girl and said "Oh, isn't that cute -- an unmarried barely teenage girl wants a baby. I think I will bless her with a baby". I know and believe with my whole heart that God allows us to have...

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Our First Together

Our First Together

 I am new to this site, but I wanted to tell you all a little bit about myself. I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and this is my 5th pregnancy. I have two boys. Have had 2 past miscarriages and am praying I make it through this pregnancy. This is the first child...

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Boyfriend Advice

Boyfriend Advice

I think you already know you're doing the right thing. It doesn't sound like there's much to love about him except that he's a fellow human being. He certainly didn't act in a way to deserve your love. Unfortunately, we (especially women) tend to be like a moth to...

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Unbearable Pain And Confusion

Unbearable Pain And Confusion

My boyfriend and I were together for four years. He was always abusive towards me, even in the beginning. We had been dating for only 2 weeks when he grabbed my throat at a concert and choked me. He was always so remorseful, and sad afterwards that I believed he...

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What Will You Do Differently?

What Will You Do Differently?

 Hello -- I was sitting back thinking about my daughter. She is almost 5 and I can already tell that she is going to be "boy crazy". She tries to wear her clothes like most 16 yr olds do. It doesn't fly well with me and daddy. I don't know if I am just paranoid...

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Breaking The Cycle!

Breaking The Cycle!

 I have been on this site for about a week now and I have experienced so much emotion as a result. I have cried, gotten angry, felt broken, been ashamed, felt defensive, and I have also been disgusted. What are we doing with our lives? Personally I am breaking the...

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Finally A Place To Share!

Finally A Place To Share!

 My story starts when I began a relationship with my wonderful boyfriend, Chase. The more we talked together the clearer it was becoming that we both were in love. Only about two and half months into the relationship we starting having sex and talked about...

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Maybe I’ll Be A Good Mum?

Maybe I’ll Be A Good Mum?

I have know my ex for almost 8 years and we have been seeing each other for approximately 3 months and living together. The past few weeks, we have been fighting a lot and it normally leads to abuse. In January I found out I was pregnant. We had a fight one night...

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Do It For The Cheesburger!

Do It For The Cheesburger!

Hey everyone. Sorry I haven't gotten back to you. I figured that posting in the forums would be the quickest way of getting back to everyone. My fiance and I started renting a house so we don't have the internet anymore so I'm only on every once in a while when...

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Is This Fear Talking?

Is This Fear Talking?

 My name is Heather and I am 19. My boyfriend is 21 we have been together for 3 1/2 years. I got pregnant about 7 1/2 months ago. I told my boyfriend the second I found out. His reaction was not the best and for about a month or so he was very mean to me and made...

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But I Want My Baby and My Family!

But I Want My Baby and My Family!

 I have no way of supporting myself or my child without either my parents or my fiance and am at a loss. They all say that they support my decision no matter what it is, however, I told them that I want to keep my child and that changed dramatically. My parents...

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Keep Your Head Up Girl

Keep Your Head Up Girl

 My name is Ashley. I'm also 18, and married to a serviceman. My husband is 21 and active duty in the army. I just finished up high school. I was so scared when I found out I was pregnant, especially becuz my hubby is stationed in GA and I'm still living in TX." My...

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Confused and Pressured

Confused and Pressured

Thank you to everyone who posted back to me but by the time I had read all of these messages it was too late. I went to the clinic because I thought that if I got there and spoke about it that I could say "no". Well we got to the ultrasound and by the time they had...

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Should I Go Back To Him?

Should I Go Back To Him?

Surely having your real Mom and Dad is best for you? That's what most people tell me. But when I think about life without Matt, it really upsets me, and I see him and my little boy asleep together on the sofa, I can't take that from either of them. But when I think...

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My Man or My Baby

My Man or My Baby

I am 9 weeks pregnant. I am married I have a 10 year old and 9 month old. My husband does not want any more kids. He says if I have it he will divorce me and pay but not have anything to do with it! I love my husband very much but this isn't the first time he has...

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I Sill Haven’t Made My Decision

I Sill Haven’t Made My Decision

Hi Everyone, I'm Kat and I'm 10 weeks pregnant and I still haven't made my decision whether to keep my child or not!! I know God put this lil creation inside of me for a purpose but my boyfriend keeps insisting I abort it.I'm 19yrs and Peruvian and it's my 2nd year...

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Sober Mothers and Drunk Daddies

Sober Mothers and Drunk Daddies

Hi, my name is Erica, I'm 27, I have two kids, 1 that is 9 and 1 that is 4 and I am pregnant now.  My first pregnancy was weird, I was 17 and absolutley in love with my boyfriend, although, I can't say the same for him. He stayed with me, had it not been for me and...

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This Is How I Lived

This Is How I Lived

I was 18 years old when I found out that I was pregnant.  I was dating a guy for 2 years at the time.  It was a text book abusive relationship that everyone swears will never happen to them.  I wasn’t allowed to talk to or see any of my friends. I was limited to...

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One Week To My Abortion

One Week To My Abortion

I just discovered less than a week ago that I am 6 weeks pregnant. I'm 20 years old, a freshman in college, and have a wonderful, loving boyfriend. I was the one that brought up abortion, and at first, the boyfriend clearly said no. I respected that. I said we'd...

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