In Spite Of Who We Are

hand over sleeping babyYou are mistaken if you think that God looked down from heaven at a little girl and said "Oh, isn't that cute -- an unmarried barely teenage girl wants a baby. I think I will bless her with a baby". I know and believe with my whole heart that God allows us to have a free will and He will also let us bear the hard repercussions from making poor decisions but He does not take pleasure in sin nor does He just casually run the universe with an anything-goes frame of mind.

You say "God didn't plan it that way" about being induced. Cant you see that God didn't plan it that way for unmarried people to have sex and have babies? I have had two kids out of wedlock and it has only brought hurt and rejection for my kids. God didn't plan it that way and I have many repercussions in my life because of it. Maybe I didn't see it at the time and I didn't want anything to do with GOD when I got pregnant with my first but I also didn't throw His name around and tell people that God was into blessing those things that are not good for us. That He calls sin.

Can Mothers Tell You're Pregnant?

mother and daughterMothers don't always know!!! but if you have had children you can usually tell that someone you are close to is pregnant because you can see the symptoms.

Have you told your mom that there is a possibility that you could be pregnant? Does your mom know that you are sexually active? do you sneak around and do things behind her back? Have you taken a pregnancy test?

Our First Together

blue shirt little girl I am new to this site, but I wanted to tell you all a little bit about myself. I am currently 9 weeks pregnant and this is my 5th pregnancy. I have two boys. Have had 2 past miscarriages and am praying I make it through this pregnancy. This is the first child my husband and I will have together.

I read so many of the stories about the bravery of these young women and believe me I feel your pain. Raising a child is not easy. Children take a lot of hard work, discipline and patience.

Boyfriend Advice

boyfriend girlfriendI think you already know you're doing the right thing. It doesn't sound like there's much to love about him except that he's a fellow human being. He certainly didn't act in a way to deserve your love.

Unfortunately, we (especially women) tend to be like a moth to a flame. Just know that you're not alone in this kind of situation.

Also, your love for your child will far exceed any love you might have for this man. You'll want to protect a baby even more than yourself, and since you're smart enough to do what's right for you, it'll be easier to continue doing so for a child. Surround yourself with people who support your decision so they can keep you grounded when you start to be tempted by him.

Unbearable Pain And Confusion

teen unhappy 10My boyfriend and I were together for four years. He was always abusive towards me, even in the beginning. We had been dating for only 2 weeks when he grabbed my throat at a concert and choked me. He was always so remorseful, and sad afterwards that I believed he meant it when he apologized. But I now know that he never did.

When we turned sixteen, I got pregnant with our first child, Trystan, who is now almost three, he never touched me once when I was pregnant with him, so, I thought all of the abuse, was behind me, I was wrong. Right after I gave birth, he continued to hurt me, he bruised my ribs, my face, my neck, and just about everywhere else, and for some reason, I still believed him when he said "I love you".

What Will You Do Differently?

hands on belly Hello -- I was sitting back thinking about my daughter. She is almost 5 and I can already tell that she is going to be "boy crazy". She tries to wear her clothes like most 16 yr olds do. It doesn't fly well with me and daddy. I don't know if I am just paranoid because of the way I was (lost my virginity at 13 and went wild from there) or if I can just see the direction she cant wait to walk in. Well, regardless of what road she will end up one day I know that there are things my parents should have done to keep a better eye on me.

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