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Emotions from an Abortion

Emotions from an Abortion

I recently had an abortion, about a week and a half ago. When i found out i was pregnant, i had so many emotions going through me. i was terrified, scared, and confused. after a couple weeks of thinking things through, I had decided to choose abortion. I couldnt...

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In the News

In the News

Justin Bieber has been in hot water lately for mentioning in a March 3rd Rolling Stone Magazine article he really don't believe in abortion.  "I think [an embryo] is a human," the singer said. "It's like killing a baby." He was called ignorant and too young to...

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My Big Regret

My Big Regret

Last summer I had been dating this guy who I really like and he really liked me. It had been an on and off relationship for around a year but at the begining of last summer was when it got really serious. We never spoke about having a baby or anything of that sort...

A Military Life
A Military Life

A Military Life

I am going to be open, no matter how many tears I shed.  This is still very painful for me.  The whole story begins in December 2003 when I was transferred to New Orleans.  I met a man named Nate*.  I was 19 years old and Nate's roommate was my sponsor.  I showed...

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End of the Story?

End of the Story?

It wasn't meant to happen. I was in a  foreign country. I was lonely. My friend who I was staying with had sent me off with his friend so he could invite some body around for sex. He'd been cutting me off for a lot of the time that I stayed with him. I went out...

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Sorry Isn’t Good Enough

Sorry Isn’t Good Enough

I met my boyfriend 9 and a half months ago and ever since that day I've never been happier. He has saved me from depression and sorrow. My mum left my dad about 1 year ago, took most of everything my dad had in his house and took my sister away from me. I chose to...

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She Makes Every Day Worth Living

She Makes Every Day Worth Living

I got pregnant when I was 17 by a guy I hardly knew.  Two weeks after I found out about my baby, he left and I havent seen him since. I eventually started dating a wonderful guys when I was 4 months pregnant.  We were together for a year, then things unfortunately...

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I’d Do Anything To Take It Back

I’d Do Anything To Take It Back

It's been a month and 10 days since I aborted my baby, and my family would say how strong they thought I was and how well I was coping - I was fine! I'd think about it and sometimes get a little teary but I thought I would be okay. but I realize now I've made the...

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I Learn Everything the Hard Way

I Learn Everything the Hard Way

Ok. So I guess this is my first time ever publicly admitting to anyone other than just a handful of close, personal friends that in February of 2008, at the age of 29 years old, without hesitation I chose to have an abortion. I say without hesitation, but I have to...

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Perfection

Perfection

I want you to know you got me trapped in a cage, a cage full of regret and sorrow, you wont accept me and let me live my life, so all i got left to do is worry in strife. how do i know whats gonna happen next, all you do is read in between the lines, you never open...

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I’ll Always Miss You

I’ll Always Miss You

I look back on that day and really think of how much of a fool I was.  To think that I would just forget about it and move on with my life was just a dream. It is still and will always be there.  I aborted my unborn child, and no one close to me knows. I went to...

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An Uncertain Life

An Uncertain Life

Her child would have no future, no normal life. Her child would be, if she lived, a burden on an already large family of five children and husband who had lost his job that year.My mother was saddened by this news, and made arrangements to see another doctor for a...

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Right Here and Right Now

Right Here and Right Now

I've read people’s stories and cried myself to sleep, but that’s not the only reason I've cried myself to sleep for the past 8 days. My wish is that anyone who is thinking of doing what I did, read this and don’t go down the same road. 8 days ago on the 9th of...

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Nothing, Nada, Zip.

Nothing, Nada, Zip.

I felt no support from anyone, my friends were all for my decision. everyone said it was my decision. How could i keep my baby with no help and no support!! I wanted too. I really wanted too. I told my boy this but he wouldn't take me seriously!! I feel that i need...

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New Zealand isn’t paradise

New Zealand isn’t paradise

  Why did I do it? I was 17. He was 20.We had been together roughly 6 months when I found out I was pregnant. The first thing out of his mouth was 'we'll go to Christchurch in the weekend' (the closest city to us that did terminations). I told him it wasnt that...

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He Sacrificed Me

He Sacrificed Me

I honestly feel that I just need to write everything I've been through these past 9 months.  I know I've been going through all the other girls' blogs, reading them, taking it in, I can only hope someone will stop and read my story, just so they know they're not...

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No patch

No patch

  I just recently turned 19. I'm a Chinese-American girl (born and raised in the US) who just started college. I was raised in the typical Asian upbringing, expected to achieve the standards that my parents and family set. what's more, my family is predominantly...

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Another hope

Another hope

If I can help one person- I will be happy!  Please don't do it.  I was forced by my parents to have an abortion when I was 15.  I will never be the same person.   There will always be a hole in my soul.  I am now married with 3 children- and I still grieve the...

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Had one a week ago.

Had one a week ago.

My name is Kara, I'm 18 and I had an abortion exactly a week ago. It was the worst decision of my life. I hammered it into my head that abortion was for the best, and that a baby would be too much of a hassle. I can't even describe the pain I'm in which I'm sure...

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Soooo fast!

Soooo fast!

11 months ago i met my boyfriend and we began dating right away. we were fascinated by each others different ideas yet same way of thinking. we fell in love sooo fast! but it felt like there was nothing to loose by loving him..so i went for it..and not even 3...

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