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I’m scared. Please help. ūüôĀ

Heya people. I'm Shreya and I'm from India. I'm 15 years. Well, it's been one and a half year I'm dating a guy, and we both love each other too much. We even have had sex three times . But the problem starts from there. It was okay till this May, I was getting my...

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The Truth

Ok, I have a little vent to get out here, please bear with me! I have seen and heard many people give arguments in regards to teen pregnancy....Some have been AGAINST people like us at Standupgirl.com....They ask and question WHY we encourage young girls to follow...

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need advice please ūüôĀ

to start off, i'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my last period was june 14th. we have had unprotected sex alot and im not on the pill anymore. ive been getting nauseous, my boobs are swollen and i cant touch them! ive been peeing alot, super tired,...

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Soon

I'm so excited! I'll be 37 weeks pregnant tomorrow. I can't believe of how the time has passed. I have been considering lots of things to provoke my labor. I've considered castor oil or just going out for a long walk.  My family is visiting Mexico this August. I'd say...

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when will it stop….

i feel so foolish, even though i already know what i feel i shouldnt be ok. he gave me up. as a matter of fact he gave "us" up because he couldnt handle my choice of keeping her, our child. I love him again and again. I cant explain why. i spend so many days and...

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I love Research!!!

Hi all!  Well I am new to this site, with postings, I found SUG  about 2 and a half year ago, I was still in school and thaught I might be pregnant. Well I would have loved it, but I was not, and now I am trying for it. So to get to what I realy want to say... Lately...

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My story.

So today is a whole month since we brought Leo home(8thJuly today), and its coming up the 13th July, which means Leo will be 3 months old. And a few people have asked me about my story, so i think its coming up about the right time to explain.  I found i was pregnant...

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Wow… Time Is So Near!!

I can't believe how fast the time has passed. Before, I would complain so much. I felt like my due date was so far away. I wanted time to speed. I was always impatient. And now, I just can't believe it. I am actually 35 weeks pregnant!! I'm so happy. July 9th, I have...

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am i going crazy?

well im 19 years old and i have a one year old son. i start college in september and im thinking about having another baby. i know everybody is gonna say it will be to hard, but that just makes me wanna proove them wrong even more. my boyfriend doesnt want anymore...

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We Want It.

hi. Good day! Me and my bf are living together for 1 year. and we want to have a baby, we even think names to our future babies. but its hard for me to get pregnant, is it possible because of my miscarriage last year?

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He’s home. My baby boy is finally home!

After 8 long weeks in hospital Leo has finally settled in at home with us, with his family, where he belongs.  Its been a long couple of days since he's been home. Restless nights, stressful days. But seeing my son's smile at home is fantastic. Me and Lee are getting...

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You Can Do It On Your Own!

I found out I was pregnant when I was 16 years old going into my senior year of high school. I couldn't even believe it was true because I have always made sure we used protection but like the doctors said, "accidents happen." I decided to keep my baby-I had lots of...

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can i be pregnant?

hi everybody:) me and my boyfriend had sex during the week i was ovulating and i been feeling nausua one of my boobs hurt and i feel super tired and my lower back hurts.. my body dont feel the same anymore :/ and i took three HPT and all negative and i am 9 days late...

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update: Labour – Nearly a month old ūüôā

Right, so Olivia is 3 week + 4 days old and I can't believe how fast it has gone, even now it doesnt seem real shes here. She was born 2nd may 2012 weighing 7lbs and was 50 cms long 3cms above average. I had a bad 8 hour labour from being in slow labour for a week, I...

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I really need some advice!

So yesterday my mum went & got me heaps of booklets on what to eat to promote a healthy pregnancy & i have to say i died a little inside. All these food products i know & love & treasure as dearly as my family & im forbidden from eating them. I am...

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It’s what I want…

im finding myslef in that place where i know what i want in life and i want it so passionately that i have no clue what to do. i want kids and its a feeling and desire that wont ever go away until that chance comes along. i hate saying it because i know how people are...

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Cravings :/

Cravings. All of them, all at the same time. Pepperoni Pizza. Chocolate Ice cream. Indian Butter Chicken. KFC wicked wings &  Original Recipe chicken. Apple Pie with Whipped Cream. Medium Rare Steak. Im just happy we dont have Taco Bell in New Zealand...

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Change is good… right?

I am 17 years old and 31 weeks pregnant with my baby girl !! Right now I couldn't be more happier. I have a wonderful man in my life, great support group from my family and my boyfrriends family, and that seems to make me just happy as can be, so you'd think. The one...

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Hyper thyroid

Hi Ya'll its me again. Been a long time.A little bit of update. Will be 18 soon YAY.My son will be a year in less than a week! EXCITED.Boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged. (NOT my son's father)I had Graves deseies and now that is FIXED. Not happy...

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New to this

Hey everybody. I don know exactly how to use this blog. But I'll figure it out eventually. Do any of you have any tips? (LOL!!!) I'm here if anyone want my opinion on something. 

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Freaked!

The thought of my baby being here with me now, is very exciting. I wish I could hold him already. I want to see him and kiss him and tell him all the lovely things that can only be spoken with him there.  As much as I want him here with me now, I know that I need to...

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Round two.

I had my son, he's four months old now(: Love him to death<3 And now the aaahhhmazing news. I'm pregnant. AGAIN. At least my period is a week late. IT was NOT planned this time... Here out my story before you judge. I'm getting a home testsoon. Tomorrow I hope and...

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So much has changed.

Leo is a month old tomorrow. My waters broke exactly a month ago today.  I should still be pregnant. My bump should be getting much bigger, and my baby boy should be inside my belly, but he isnt. Never imagined him actually coming that early. 16 weeks before my due...

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Lost in Society.

So. In January I lost my 2nd baby. I took a slight break from the SUG network. and, I got a new love, Tim. and I moved out, and tried life on my own. I was doing SO GOOD. I even got my period in April... I have a fertile body, so it doesnt take much for me to gett...

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Dear Unborn Baby

You weren't planned for a second. But that doesn't mean anything, You're a blessing in disguise. That's what I hoped they'd see. I cry everyday at the thought of losing you. My Sweet Angel I already fell in love with you. But I can't help feel something wrong....

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6 month landmark

My little ones are now at the six month mark, and it's been a hell of a road getting here. Up to about three weeks ago they still were waking up three, four, times a night and I was getting snowed under with Uni work that I felt I really couldn't get done. I think I...

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My Feet Are Killing Me

Well, my feet are beginning to swell. It's the worse pain ever. I'm a shoe person, not much of a sandal person. Well, my shoe now fits me super tight. I can walk in them fine, but when it's time to take my shoes off, I can see my sock lining marks and they hurt.  So,...

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Gestational Diabetes Test Appointment

Today, I was tested for the Gestational Diabetes. This might seem quite dumb, but I didn't even know what the test was for. :(( So, like always, I Googled it. Hahahaha. :)) What is Gestational Diabetes? Pregnant women who have never had diabetes before but who have...

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The Nursery Room

Though, we haven't started painting or really anything in the Nursery Room, we do already have plans. My husband and I already know what color the room is going to be painted, the theme, there is still nothing there. There isn't even a crib in the room yet. My husband...

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It is NOT cute

Is it me or a lot of pregnant teens finding it "cute" and "fun" to have a kid. I understand that , ok, maybe reality hasnt set in yet for them ....not until the first few weeks after their baby is born, but too many teenagers are getting pregnant!!! I mean, my former...

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RANT

I use to be the person who'd tell someone to back the f*** off in a second because they had no right to give an opinon on my life. I'm still that person but I hate to be rude enless I'm irritated then I'm willing to punch you in the face. Sounds agressive, yeah I...

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Risked destroying my babies life

Where has the time gone? Last time i wrote in my blog i was 11 weeks into my pregnancy and everyone was trying to talk me into an abortion, yet here i am with my beautiful 14 month old baby girl lying in bed next to me. She is perfection snuggling up to 'Duckie' her...

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Pregnancy is so hard…and long.

Honestly, im bored of bieng pregnant now. Im only just half way through it. Should have another 17 weeks left. Its so long.  I find it so hard to sleep now, cant get comfy during the night. I wake up so early. Im restless all through the day. Ive had multiple...

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36 weeks pregnant .. 4 weeks to go!!

With a month to go until my due date, at 36 weeks pregnant, I think I may have entered the final phase of pregnancy. Here's what I did yesterday afternoon: 1. Tidied the livingroom 2. Tidied bedroom 3. Cleaned the bathroom 4. Tidied the kitchen 5. Vacumed the rooms 6....

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14 and Might be Pregnant

 hi i'm Janilis and i'm 14 and might be Pregnant .  First all i'm very scared to tell my parents are the strict type of parents My mom always told me if i ever get pregnant shes going to kick me out the house . My dad is going to be very disappointed im scared to tell...

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I Miss You Grandma…

Things have been hard but what has been killing me is that Tuesday makes it 3yrs since you've been gone. You were a big part of my strength. When ever my dad and I argued...you told me everything would be okay. I need you here to tell me everythings going to be okay...

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Dear…

Dear Mummy... Im so sorry this is happening. Im sorry i didnt listen to you. But im going to be a mum soon, i'll learn a lesson, i'll understand how hard it must have been for you. Also thank you so very much for supporting me, being there at every hospital...

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Struggling

Lately I walk around and it feels like I'm dreaming. Nothing feels real anymore.  Just in a daze that makes nothing seem like reality. I struggle everyday to not think that one lil thing will make it all  better. Depression is scary. Everyone wonders why I act the way...

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help

hey everyone ive been reading everyones stories here looking for advice. i am 19 going on 20 in three months and i found out five days ago that i am 6 weeks pregnant. and im scared. one moment i want to keep it and the next i dont. my bf wants to keep it and he says...

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My Story

Hi everyone, I felt like it was time to share my story, because just reading that someone else went through what you are going through really help to feel more comfortable. I'm current 19 turning 20 in November, my precious baby boy is turning 3 month on the 1ste of...

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7 weeks to go!! ..

So I'm finally 33 weeks, thinking back to when we took the pregnancy test in august, time has flown. Seriously, this sounds abit harsh but im now fed up of being pregnant. Nothing fits and sleeping JESUS its a complete nightmare I cant seem to get comfy at all....

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lost and confused

This may be long but I feel hopeless and any advice would be great!! In September 2011 I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 23. When I found out, I was totally freaked out but kind of excited at the same time. When I...

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it’s been a year baby..

dear my sweet little angle, today is your first birthday, and i am so sad i cannot spend it with you. youre so grown up baby, you probably wouldve made me so proud. i still miss you, i really and truly do. i cry every once in awhile because i feel your pain; you not...

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I want this to be over…

Im 18 weeks 3 days...19weeks on friday!   I feel like an elephant, cant even fit in my school shirts anymore. I cant concentrate at school, Leo is moving around so much already. People are starting to stare and talk...seriously ive been pregnant for almost 5 months! ...

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Its been a while,

So to catch up, I'm 10 wks pregnant and couldnt be more suprised as to how easy its been besides the hunger and exhaustion. But surprisingly no vomiting or anything. My next appt is the 29th and I'm so anxious for the day to get here lol. The babys father and I broke...

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Letters to a dear sister <3 '

Letters to a dear sister  <3 '              Dear Aunicaa  , life wasn't the same when I found out I was pregnant.On November 24 I missed my period. That day felt a bit different from other days. I wasn't sure why. It felt....different.I was afraid that I was...

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7th March 2012.

So much going on in my life, one of my very dear friends sadly commited suicide monday evening. So im utterly devestated! RIP Darren. Also baby daddy drama, Leo's dad honestly needs to grow up! Im fed up of Leo keeping me awake already...and he's not even here yet,...

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I love my little man!

Im currently 17 weeks 4 days! I know im only 15...so young, but i really do love my unborn baby boy! He's everything to me. Im so happy about this pregnancy, im not sad and miserable...im proud of this. Im strong and im willing to do this on my own if i have to! If my...

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Loosing my mind

things have just gotten so bad I dont know how to maintain my sanity without being spiteful, mean, crude, sinful. I have gotten into a horrible fight with my sons father who has as a result turned on his own child and says he doesnt want anything to do with him...

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Prayers finally answered<3

Since my last post, I'm almost 7weeks pregnant! 3 more weeks and I wont have to worry as much, I'll be in the safe zone. But, I'm so excited! I just haven't figured out how to tell my dad. I'm not sure if he will freak out or not. My boyfriend seems excited just not...

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My Story…

As I have been on this for nearly a year now I thought it was time I said everything and what haven't most people know I had a miscarriage but not all the details. Basically I was 14 me and my boyfriend had been together for a little over a year and in the April I got...

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im super afraid to face this ūüôĀ

hi, im Raquel, 18, well just turned 18 last january 20 this year. I have my current boyfriend for almost 10 months, last month before my birthday, rumors about my pregnancy starts to spread without knowing it, well its not really a fact because i had a period that...

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Breaking the news

  So finding out I was pregnant was scary enough but the thought of sharing the news with family... Now that had me shaking in my boots! I decided the first thing to do was tell my mum seeing how I'm covered under her work insurance... But I was scared... I didn't...

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