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Dear Me 3

Things sure have changed fast! Just three weeks ago I was wishing to be back with him... I trusted him! He betrayed me. I’m negative, he’s positive. We broke up, three weeks ago, 31st of August I found out, I could keep it down I started to tear up because I knew the...

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Still in denial

Hi. I don’t really know where to start. Well, I am 19 and I have recently gone through a very tough time. I didn’t want to face it and I think that I might still be in denial in a way. I need to share my story and hopefully get some support. I chose Standupgirl after...

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Dear Me 2

Dear me, How could this happen!!! He’s been diagnosed with Chlamydia and now you might have it as well?? Who could that have even happened? It must have happened with one of the other two, but was it from the one in November?  Or your ex from December to April?  ...

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Timing

My name is Anna, and I'm 19 years old. A few years ago, I went through an incredibly rough time, struggling with depression and a lot of fighting in my family. The result was that I fell behind a year in school. I took a turn for the better and got my life on track,...

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Dear Me

Dear me, I don’t know what to do anymore I have no purpose no reason for living, I’m 17 almost 18 and I’m even more lost than I was when I was in grade 6, even more lost than when I was assaulted. Even more lost that I was the second time I was assaulted… Even more...

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Distance is no help

Everyone knows that an unexpected teen pregnancy is a scary ordeal, be it you're keeping the baby, aborting, or adoption. My story is no different, because a scare is just as scary... You have all your plans flash before your eyes, everyone telling you their input...

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looks can be deciving

  How well do we ever know the one we love? I always thought that I was enough for my husband but I found out the hard way that I am not. In all due fairness I haven’t found any proof that he is cheating on me physically but rather emotionally and electronically. He...

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help

How well do we ever know the one we love? I always thought that I was enough for my husband but I found out the hard way that I am not. In all due fairness I haven’t found any proof that he is cheating on me physically but rather emotionally and electronically. He...

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My Post Abortion Recovery Story

I am SO glad I found this community of support for abortion recovery! I started a blog yesterday to share my story of 3 abortions nearly 10 years ago which almost ended my life through depression and suicidal thoughts. I am sharing some of my post below. I am amazed...

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Major stress!!

Hello everybody! I am a single mama of 4 kids.  I am 35.  My situation in life is quite a bit different than other stories I have been reading on here.  I am in the middle of a divorce.  I was married for almost 12 years.  My ex was addicted to porn and I had enough....

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My 4D ultrasound

So yesterday at 1:30 i got my 4D ultrasound done 🙂 it was amazing to be able to see my son with that much detail. 🙂 It was so cute when he yawned while i was getting it done :). My only concern is while i was having the ultrasound done he kept his hand up beside his...

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My journey through pregnancy and Miscarriage

I want to start off by saying I am deeply sorry to anyone who has had a Miscarriage.  My name is Hanna, I`m 18 and have unfortunately suffered the pain of having a miscarriage. I was into the first week of my second trimester and settling into the idea of becoming a...

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The second time around.

  Well my name is Sarah and I am pregnant once again. I am having a boy and i am due august 28th 2013. I already have a 4 year old daughter i am only 18. Both of my kids have the same dad but he isnt in the picture anymore. We dated in high school and i got pregnant...

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Shopping for Maternity Dresses for the Office

  If you are pregnant and planning on working up to your due date or just before, you should start considering maternity dresses and other items for the office. Whilst one wants to remain comfortable you should also ensure that you look professional and maintain your...

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I don’t like surprises.

I am pretty sure I am a few weeks into pregnancy. I am nineteen years old, my fiance' is in the United States Marine Corps. We recently solved a lot of problems in our relationship and spent a few weeks together recently while we were fixing our relationship. During...

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A few years from now…

Hi.... I'm Franz 18 yrs. old.. I really want to share my story...Well my big brother was born when my mom was still a teenager.. and my brother isn't just her first baby when she was a teen... sad to say the first baby was gone because of an accident.. so my big...

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im hear to listen and help if i can

hi everyone. my name is Brittany im 22 with three kids and the fourth on the way. I wanted to share my story with you all. I hope it can help some. I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 16. yes I was scared and had a lot of emotions  running through my head, not...

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Too Late

So a couple days ago I found out that I couldnt have kids... I am 19 years old and this was a huge surprise, not that I am planning on having kids just yet, but one day I did want kids... anyways I am dating this guy and he has a kid.. he has a year and six month old...

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Hello Stand Up Girl!

Hi Guys! You have no idea how happy I was to find out that this website still exists! This site was my refuge back in my teenage years--with pregnancy and all that stuff. I just want to share my story and how StandUpGirl.com has helped me become who I am today. I was...

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Someone Help Me!

About 5 months ago before I started college I found out I was pregnant, I was only 16. I didn't know what to do, I was so lost and confused. I wasn't sure what I really wanted. I had always loved the fact of having a baby, having a family that I never really had, as...

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My Sick Little Girl

I am seeking some advice on how to cope with the overwhelming stress of having a constantly sick child. My daughter has severe Asthma and has been constantly struggling to breathe since she was about 15 months. She is now 3 1/2 years old and in the last 4 months...

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No idea what to do..

When I was 16 years old, I had my beautiful little boy, with a guy I loved with all my heart. About 2 months after our son was born, he took off, he wasn't ready to "grow up". My son will be 2 in February, and his dad started coming back around again in September. We...

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19 pregnant no family support

I have been dating my same boyfriend for three years now and this isn't our first pregnancy. Our first year together I got pregnant and was forced into an abortion from my parents and him as well. \Anyway now a few years later I was actively taking birth control for...

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Leading Up To The Choice

I've never blogged before.. Or talked to anyone about this besides the people in my life I'm closest too so this is a new thing for me. I guess the way I'm going about trying to get better just isn't working so it's time to try something new. You can't get better if...

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i Need Answers Please

Ok So Im 15 I had unprotected sex on November 2nd 2012 he didnt cum in me and i got my period the next day. its now december 18th i usually get my period on the 3rd. so im late. is there any way i could be pregnant?.

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My Life Thus Far…

It's December 16th, 2012, just a week and a half before Christmas. This year will be my second Christmas with my daughter and my first as a married woman! That's right! I'm married! I met my husband on October 2nd of 2011 and we became good friends, hanging out almost...

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For the third time.

I already have a two year old daughter. I got pregnant a year after having her and ended up having an abortion. Now, I'm pregnant for the third time. I'm very torn. I don't want another baby but I don't want to go through the abortion process again. I look at my own...

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might be pregnant

I was a virgin till i started dating this guy about 6 weeks ago now everything was going great, i lost it to him and then went on the pill didnt feel any different till about 3 weeks ago i started peeing alot more, was hungry all the time, back hurt and my boobs were...

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It all started……

It all started in November 2011... me and my boyfriend were having sex. we didnt know the condom broke.. and all after that i never ended up pregnant. and so we never used condoms.. In August. i started my period.. then september came. no period, October i had a...

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My experience and the aftermath

I had an abortion a few months ago and I can relate to many of the girls/women on here. I'm 17 years old and got pregnant for a guy that's in his 20's. A combination of irresponsibility and plain bad luck caused the pregnancy. When we found out that I was pregnant we...

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The decision is Yours

My Life Changed The night of January 1st 2011 I went out with someone I thought was my best friend we went to a bar and She left me I sat my drink down no less that 3 minutes and don't remember anything until the next morning when I woke up in grass covered in dirt...

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muttered words

It takes a lot of energy to not think of you, to force myself not to feel the flicker of my heart as it beats for you. The painful wrenching as I tear your heavy presence out of my very soul. The taste of your lips still haunt me, the touch of your skin, the very...

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My story

So I am new to this and I am not sure exactly what to say. I am sixteen years old and right now I am almost 4 1/2 months. I don't have a problem with a good support system, because I have one the best support systems with my family. I don't talk to many people outside...

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Complications

I am new to this website and first things first: my fiance and I are having a baby. We are scared but excited at the same time. I am just over whelmed because of the different emotions I am experiencing and I hate getting mad at Chris, my fiance, for little things...

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Scared & Don’t Know What To DO

Okay so I've never used this site before, and well I just need help, someone to talk to. Okay I'm 15 years old, well just turned 15 the 18th, and so I think I'm pregnant. I had been having irregular periods for a couple months now, but this month I haven't had one at...

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6 month appointments!

Leo was 6 months old last week. So he was due 6 month check ups. He had an appointment with the midwife this morning, just for general checks. Everything was great, he's now 14lbs 4oz...that's 12lbs 2oz heavier than what he was when he was born. It was amazing, I'm a...

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My story.

For those of you that don't know my story, here it is.My name is Ashley and I got pregnant when I was 14. When my boyfriend and I found out we had no idea what to do, and of coarse the first thing that comes to mind is abortion. Yes, I am totally against abortion and...

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My story.

For those of you that don't know my story, here it is.My name is Ashley and I got pregnant when I was 14. When my boyfriend and I found out we had no idea what to do, and of coarse the first thing that comes to mind is abortion. Yes, I am totally against abortion and...

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The Beginning of My Journey

Posted by a Guest Hello everyone in this awesome community, I guess I'll start with an intro. My name is Kari and I'm 18 years old. I'm in my last year of high school and my boyfriend of 3 years, Brad, (19) is in his first year of university. A few days ago I realized...

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Questions without judgement

So, I have never used this site before and I don't really know how to work it but I am in need of help and I think this site may be able to answer my questions without judgement and or disbelief in me. My story is not unusual, it is actually quite common, But it's...

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When reality hits

So i had Leo a little over 5 months ago. Before he was born me and Lee where hardly together...he wanted nothing to do with us when i found out...he then changed his mind and proposed when Leo was in the NICU. I thought everything was going perfect-it was for the...

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Reality hits.

So i had Leo a little over 5 months ago. Before he was born me and Lee where hardly together...he wanted nothing to do with us when i found out...he then changed his mind and proposed when Leo was in the NICU. I thought everything was going perfect-it was for the...

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I am so proud!

Hello everyone,  I came across Stand Up Girl like many of you did, trying to find an answer to this problem that had crept up unexpectedly. I was 5 weeks pregnant when i found out, but now with the help of Stand Up Girl & the wonderful, strong women who have...

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School school school!

So you all know my son Dallas, whom is 10 months now! (I was 14 when I gave birth and I am now nearly 16). As you guys know I went to school up until the day before my induction (emergency induction). Yes, it was hard with the big belly and all but, you gotta' do...

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Need advice

I have just found out that I am pregnant. The father and I broke up a few days ago and he keeps telling me to abort this child. I don't know ho to deal with all of this. We were a very happy couple and have been together for some time. He just moved a few hours away...

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I know…

I know I shouldn't want you, I know I shouldn't are, but I cant help it. every time I close my eyes, say a prayer, watch a sad movie...you cross my mind. I want nothing more than to deny it with my every breath. I long for you to be safe, to think of me, to remember...

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My son’s father

My son's Father has just decided to take responsability for our son. I have mixed feelings about it. I just think that not having him in our life was easier for me to handle because I didn't have to worry about losing my son. I am frustrated scared confused. How...

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It’s been a while!

Well it's been a while since I've been on here but I think it's about time I start using this site again. It really did help me a lot & I could use the support. My little boy is now 5 years old & my little girl is now 3. Her father & I are not only not...

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too nice???

am i too nice to the men in my life who have done me wrong? i never shout or act out my anger, never try n seek revenge even tho its deserved.  the way things have been going through many of my past and present relationships its as tho I am not able to hurt those who...

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Abortion or Addition

I'm completely confused. My boyfriend and I have a beautiful 6 month old daughter. I'm 19 & my bf of two years is 22. We have our own place & car. He works two jobs while I look for work. We're both recent college graduates. I am currently one month pregnant....

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Can’t Believe I’m Starting College Soon!

at one point i didnt think i was going to graduate high school but i did it. now im getting ready for college. i finally decided on my major which unfortunately the school didnt have but the next closest thing is a certificate program in maternal and child health. im...

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Our Angels <3

im not sure how to start off i geuss ill start off like this.....Dec 31 ,2010 was a day that changed my life forever i was 13 and i got pregnant when my family found out they fliped out they all wanted me to get an abortion including the father of my child his mom and...

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Due date!

Leo's due date is 8th August, but obviously he came early. So i shouldnt be worried about his due date? I am probably making a big deal over nothing, but this day means a lot to me. He should either be on his way and almost here or a few days old. But actually the 8th...

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Two years to my sweet baby. <3

Dear baby, I'm writing this pretty late, but last week on the 21st it was the 2 year anniversary since mommy decided to give you back to God. I wasn't so sad baby, but don't think I forgot about you! There is not a day that goes by where i dont remember you. Although...

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Very Important Day This Sunday

I'll be 39 weeks pregnant this Friday. I and everyone in my family thought that my baby was going to be premature. I was just so big and well, I looked like a 9 month pregnant woman than a 7 month pregnant woman. I've gained 70 pounds since I got pregnant. I'm...

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