I have just turned 22 and already have a beautiful son who is almost 2. But a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant again. The guy im with now is not the father of my first son, but the father of the one i am carrying. He can't be with me as we are of different backgrounds, and well he said he is not ready to be a father. He is 27 years old and is indian,  i wan this baby but i am confused and don't want to make the wrong decision. I love this guy with all my heart, but i don't want to wreck his family who are also going through alot of things at the moment. I know he's  the one for me and well i knew we couldn't be together the first day we met, so i don't know if we are in a relationship or what. I'm carrying his child but he wants me to have an abortion, as he thinks i still have a little more exploring to do, as i am still young. And also says what if i meet another guy and i have 2 kids to 2 different men. I undertsand all that but i dont want to make the wrong decision...................Confused!

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  1. AllyJohn12

Don't listen to him. If you meet another man and he finds out that you have have two children and he runs for the hills, he isn't worth it and not into you like he should be. I hate to say it, but it sounds like your current man isn't really...

Don't listen to him. If you meet another man and he finds out that you have have two children and he runs for the hills, he isn't worth it and not into you like he should be. I hate to say it, but it sounds like your current man isn't really into you either. He just likes the sex. He has stated that over and over that there is no future for you guys but keeps stringing you along to keep you interested. This isn't fair to you. So forget him, you do what you want to do. If you want to have the abortion, do it because you want to. If you want to keep the baby, then keep the baby. He doesn't get to be upset because his family blah blah blah... he made the decision to have sex with you, and he needs to realize that a baby is a "side effect" of having sex. And it isn't just his decision on what happens next. Make the decision based on what is best for you and your family dynamic, especially since it seems like he might not be around for long. Sorry. The only wrong decision you make is the one you make for the wrong reasons. Be smart. Do what is right for you. Good luck with whatever you decide.

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