Hi all

Firstly i just want to say big ups to this website, reading everyone elses story has inspired me to write my own as i know im not the only person going through what i am at the moment!!

Where to start, well right now im actually confussed about wether im pregnant or not, i have sore and darkend nipples, heartburn, constant thirst and constant toilet stops as well as bloating and some really weird cramping i have been having unprotected sex so it is just a niggle i have.  I know i should take the test but i am affraid of the result.............

This is where things get complicated. My mum gave birth to me at 14 and i have been raised by her parents who have given up so much for me and who i am very very greatful for.  I also know they are very proud of me and am hoping i graduate from the study iam currently doing.  Im afraid that if that test turns out a pink line or a positive sign that i can not tell them as i dont want to let them down, or have them feel as though they have failed.

If i am pregnant the next prediciment i would face is breaking the news to the babys father, im unsure if i will although it would be hard to hide from him (iam against having an abortion). He is one of my closest friends who i have known for around 6 years, we became very close early this year after his girlfriend left him and we began sleeping together.  I love him and would do anything to protect him from this, should the test be positive.  I know you must all be thinking that i should have no problems telling him as he is a close friend i mean hell i tell him everything else thats going on.  BUT he has a 6 month old son to his previous girlfriend and i dont want him to not be able to focus on his boy, im so afraid of ruining his life, as i would keep the baby and give him or her the best possible life i can it just all seems so hard right now

PLEASE help any sugestions on how i could possible break this kind of news to him or my parents would be so greatly appreciated, im so confussed.  I will keep you posted as i have set a "D" date to take the test. 

Comments (1)

  1. AllyJohn12

If you are set on having and keeping the baby then you need to be up front and honest with everyone. If your parents went through all the trouble of raising you, they obviously love you very much. Therefore they will forgive you for any...

If you are set on having and keeping the baby then you need to be up front and honest with everyone. If your parents went through all the trouble of raising you, they obviously love you very much. Therefore they will forgive you for any discretion that you may have. disappointment will fade. As for your man, just because he has another child and you bring him a second, does't mean that he will no longer have a relationship with his first son. That is just something that you, and he, and his ex all will have to keep going. There is no reason that a new baby means the other child has to exit the family dynamic. I wish you luck.

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