Im 14years old and yes i have a boyfriend and hes 16years old. What I'm confused about is I dont know for sure if im pregnant buhh ive been having symptoms of what probably could be that including no period for almost 2 months now!=/My boyfriend and i have talked about this and he wants me to have his baby i told him i want to wait atleast till im done with school buhh one thing led to another and now im stuck...The other thing is that he has a daughter already and im just thinking how is that gonna work if i turn out pregnant and then he has a 1 and a half month old daughter and then another one on the way.How is she supposed to take care of both.Even though hes with me and NOT his babys mom i still dont want to be responsible for him not taking care of another child.so if anyone has any suggestions or advice PLLLLEEEEASE let me know!!thanks

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  1. MB

Hi,
How are you? While I am not sure when this blog post was written sorry, I want to say that I am here to love and support you!

I highly recommend getting in touch with a local pregnancy support centre. The link for the directory is

Hi,
How are you? While I am not sure when this blog post was written sorry, I want to say that I am here to love and support you!

I highly recommend getting in touch with a local pregnancy support centre. The link for the directory is
https://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide-directory.

I would also highly recommend to reaching out to those you know love and care for you - those you trust, whether that be your parents, close friends, etc.

Know that I am praying for you and your bubba.

Love,

Maria

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  1. MB

Hi there

First off, I would like to say that I am here to love and support you!!

Secondly, I highly recommend getting in touch with a local pregnancy support centre in your area and talking to them:

Hi there

First off, I would like to say that I am here to love and support you!!

Secondly, I highly recommend getting in touch with a local pregnancy support centre in your area and talking to them:
https://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide-directory (link for directory).

Thirdly, I recommend opening to those you love and those you know love you and care for you - whether that be your parents or close friends.

Fourthly, know that no one can force you to abort your baby if you are pregnant. Every life is PRECIOUS and HAS MEANING!
Abortion never solves any problems. It only takes on life and scars another.

Know that I am praying for you and if you would like to talk, I am here!

Love,

Maria xx

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  1. AllyJohn12

You should take a pregnancy test to be sure. Make an appointment with an OBGYN. You have options. You could keep the baby, put it up for adoption, or terminate the pregnancy. All three of the options are going to be difficult. But remember...

You should take a pregnancy test to be sure. Make an appointment with an OBGYN. You have options. You could keep the baby, put it up for adoption, or terminate the pregnancy. All three of the options are going to be difficult. But remember that you are young, and you have a lot of life ahead of you. If your gut says that you want to wait till after school, you should listen to it. Be young, have fun. But try to be more responsible. I know that he is encouraging you to have his child, but you have to ask yourself how long he will be around? I know right now you might feel like you two are going to last forever, but maybe his child's mother thought the same thing? It wouldn't be fair for you to have the child for him, and then potentially end up raising the child on your own. Just remember all your options, and go see a doctor for your health and safety. And good luck with whatever you decide.

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