we meet on the phone thru a friend she was 15 and i was 23 we both lived in diferent states i was in a christian college and she was in a christian school ... we talk for 2 hours everynight for 6 month , then she invited me to go and visit her for thanks giving day i went there with her mom's permision .. i stayed in her sister appartment she came over to spent the night with her too and we endup .. you know. i was virgin but i couldnt tell if she was .. in those 6 month that we talk she had some problems and i helpher out. and became so much closer. we never planned to do anything is just happen .. then i came back to college and i went for the summer to visit her, we di it again but this time she got pregnant .. i was scared she just toll me and desided with her mom to abort the baby .. i was so scared but i wanted the baby...i felt sad but at the same time her pastor and my pastor knew i was there visiting her and they toll me to come back inmediately or they would do something ..i came ..but we wantted to marry as soos as she got 18 i came home and we had a longdistant relationship for 6 month after that she changed on me it was different ..i repented of all i did and wanted to marry her cuz i really love her and all we went thru but now i found out letter that she was cheating anyway .. now she is having alot of problems we dont comunicate anymore cuz i was forbided for my pastor and her pastor but i know she is going for problems and she is living a married life if you know what i mean .. she is only 16 now and really hard headed. she dont understand but deep inside she knows that the guys are dating now are just taking advantage ... and she likes sex .. i want something for preventing this because i know she still in time before is too late and get pregnant with some guy who dont even care for er i know that for sure . and we all know whats the end of it ..iam praying for her but now its seems she dont want to listen to nobody .. i dont know how to help her ..the only thing i know soon she will get pregnant like her sisters .. the last text she send me said that she would killherself .. because i toll her that we had to stop comunicating cuz she choose her path already with that other guy . d that life but i dont know .i know she neds help i cant be there now i wish but i cant . but iam really worried for her i love her but i know she is being just stubborn but i know she will realize with time about now but it will be late cuz probably she will end up pregnant again or even worst and i want to avoid it if it can be possible somebody can talk to her anonimously without mentioning my name. .. i am desesperate ..
- Written by ruben8090
i dont know how to help her !!