pregnancy test 7 I am 13 weeks pregnant and I had my 3 months scan on Monday. I was so scared to go into the room and have my scan because it hadn’t sunk in that i was pregnant. Is that normal?

I told my boyfriend as soon as I found out and he made it quiet clear to me that he didn’t want anything more to do with me and he didnt want to meet our baby. It really hurt me and I didnt know what to do. Not only is “this baby a part of me but it is apart of him too”. I half expected him to turn up for my scan, but he didnt. I let him know when it was going to be and he just point blank — didn’t want to know.

Hello, my name is Emma Chapman and I am 13 weeks pregnant and I had my 3 months scan on Monday. I was so scared to go into the room and have my scan because it hadn’t sunk in that i was pregnant. Is that normal?

I told my boyfriend as soon as I found out and he made it quiet clear to me that he didn’t want anything more to do with me and he didnt want to meet our baby. It really hurt me and I didnt know what to do. Not only is “this baby a part of me but it is apart of him too”. I half expected him to turn up for my scan, but he didnt. I let him know when it was going to be and he just point blank — didn’t want to know.

I thought the world of him and he really hurt me with the things that he said to me.

I know in my heart that I will be able to cope with the pregnancy and the baby without him though because I have got my mum and families support. I’m just a bit scared of what I am going to tell my baby when it starts asking questions about its dad. I keep sitting in my bedroom staring at my scan picture and half expecting myself to wake up from this dream. But I don’t. I’m awake and this is all real.

When I saw the little heart beat and saw it moving around I knew that I have made the right decision and nothing would make me change my mind for my little bundle of joy that is on the way. I would do anything for my baby and I mean absolutely anything.

If their are any 16 year olds out there who think that they have to have an abortion because there boyfriend isn’t going to support them then don’t. You can do it on your own. Just be strong girls and dont let ANYONE make you think that you cant do it on your own. When you have got your baby in your arms you will know that you have made the right choice. I can’t wait to hold my baby!