so for all of you that know my story i am 18 and i am5/6weeks preggies
my boyfrinds ex has never left us alone never.. she always calling him or inviting him on face book and calling his mom. he has told her to leave us alone but she wont
about 4 weeks ago before i found out, she left him a message on his phone claiming he made her preg in dec and why did he leave her, we fought so somuch over this. he just denied it
last week she invited me n face book and says that he made her pregnant anf he needs to be with her.. he swore to me from day 1 that he never even slept with her, its like she keeps threatening me. she does not know that i am pregnant..
i dunno if i can trust my bf now or what to do. every day she has something to tell me, its driving me crazy. im stressing so somuch about it, and we keep fightin about whether he wants this baby or not
as for the girlfriend issue try to ignore her its always worked for me and if she really is preg than she shouldnt becoming to you for all her problems. she is not with your boyfriend anymore so she shouldnt be bothering you.
as for the boyfriend and the fighting. i heard it is not a good idea because fighting can become stressfull and if you are stressed so is your baby and therefore you might have a miscarriage.
maybe his ex might not even be pregnant she might be saying that because she knows it is stressing you out and that is is going to make your boyfriend want to go back to her.
Hey, I’m sorry that your in that situation, I agree with the girls above, the only thing I have to add is that it’s probly better to deal with it before the baby gets here and get any drama out of the way ( without stressing yourself out too much) before the baby is born, because you don’t want a newborn and all of this on your hands. When it’s born you and your boyfreind w ant to be able to enjoy your time with it. Any issues are between your boyfreind and her, so tell your bf to man up and have an adult conversation with her. If he’s telling the truth, I’d imagine that he’d do what he could to make it right for you and his baby.
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