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October 25, 2008 at 11:49 pm #22823Parker_r_14
I just want to tell you how I am doing, whats going on ect….Anyway I am now 5 monthes pregnant and found out I am having two little girls, I am stuck on what to name them! I have been living with a caring, wonderful,smart guy named Mark. My parents still refuse to talk to me but that is their chouce. Mark is my best freind lily’s older brother. He is supportive of any choice I make and I count him as my biggest fan. I try my hardest not to think about Drew and how my little girls were conceved. I have gained a huge 7 pounds…Haha actually I have horrible morning sickness and I feel like crap all the time. It is getting better though. I decided that I wanted to do internet schooling and I am maintaing a 4.0 GPA. I felt the first kick about a month age but I am the only one who can feel it. I lay in bed at night thinking about how I once thought of abortion and I wonder if I made the right choice in not choosing abortion. Deep down I know I did but I still long for the good old days of hanging out with freinds, and my clothes fitting me =). I am about 80% sure I am keeping my babies but I don’t know. It’s not money thats the problem, I just don’t know if I would be a good enough mother or be able to love them enough. ANyway thats my update. I am getting a 4D ultrasound in a month and I am super exided.:side:October 26, 2008 at 1:31 pm #22841GangY
hey girl…congrats on your girls!
i just wanted to say, you are such a strong person…im sure you are a motivation for many girls here on..
keep on the good work moma, and im sure, once youll held the girls in your arms, youll know that you are going to be a great moma, no matther how the past was.
good luck!October 27, 2008 at 6:39 pm #22868Anonymous
Thank you for keeping us updated! 🙂 So is Mark your bf now, or just a friend?October 29, 2008 at 1:47 am #22885FaithandBella
Are stories are very similer!!! My boyfreind is called Mark and I have twin girls!!! SO weird!October 30, 2008 at 5:16 am #22909Anonymous
Sweety, you did make the right decision. When you hold those little girls in your arms, you’ll know for sure that it’s going to be more than okay and completely worth it. I’m so happy that you’re doing great. 🙂 Keep us updated!November 29, 2008 at 10:51 pm #23334Parker_r_14
I don’t really know I mean our relashionship is kina confusing and I don’t know if I am ready because of the rape I mean.December 1, 2008 at 5:34 pm #23347Ch3y_IS_BACK
Girly once you have your babies and hold them and smell them and see them smile…your pain will melt away and you will feel a joy like no other thing on this earth can bring….a child (or children) is always a blessing hunni…you have no idea the path they may take you and how wonderful things could be until you keep strong and see it out till the end…dwell not on dark things from your past because now you stand in light. 🙂December 1, 2008 at 7:45 pm #23353Anonymous
I know what you mean… rape is a really hard thing to go through. Here is my opinion, you can take it or leave it whatever. 😉
I think that you should make a commitment to save sex for marriage (even though you are pregnant you can still have your purity to give to your husband some day). That way you not only have a fantastic gift for your future husband, you can also avoid the pain and hurt of having sex with Mark and then breaking up with him down the road (because I mean, let’s be honest, teen relationships rarely last even for highschool).
So anyways, that’s my opinion. 🙂
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