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    AvatarSuzy_n_Chris

    I am 21 and 9 weeks pregnant. I live with my parents but am moving out this summer (reguardless of pregnancy). In the mean time I am deathly afraid to tell my mother. My extended family is already starting to know, so I neeed to tell her soon. I have had one scare and one previous pregnancy. The scare in 05, i was 19. I found out I was pregnant and we told her, then all I remember was being in the office with my grandmother, mother, and my fiance (the father). I went to get the "A" and they saw there was nothing there. But SHE all but forced me into this choice. My first actual pregnancy last year I made the choice/mistake to medically abort. That left me SO emotionally drained and utterly depressed. I WILL NOT do that again and my fiance will not let me. Last time I pleaded with him to change our minds, I wanted him to give me an out. This time around he is out of school and into a computer job, and I will be finished in June. I am still so afraid we won’t have enough money. But where the family falls out I have the most amazing friends that are helping with open arms.

    In the end I am just scared she will tell me I should get an "A", and she will MAKE SURE to remind me at every point that I am making a mistake/desicion. I don’t want to hear what she has to say, but I guess I have to. 🙁
    At this point I’m not sure either of my parents will be invited to our wedding.

    Help, i need your opinions and advice…..

    xxSuzyxx

    #16147
    Avatarsibzy

    DONT GET AN ABORTION. I HAD ONE AND I HAVENT BEEN THE SAME PERSON SINCE.

    KEEP YOUR BABY AND JUST BE PATIENT MONEY MATTERS WILL SORT THEM SELVES OUT.

    YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE A BABY WITHOUT YOUR PARENTS HAVING A SAY!!

    JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!

    #16282
    Avatarnavywife

    having a baby is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world.. you are 21… you shouldnt be worrying about what your parents say.. you are an adult, its your choice not theirs… good luck

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