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    Avatarkkshorty12

    [color=#000080]Hey everyone!
    I’m a bit confused. I keep going back and forth with the idea of pregnancy. I came to conclusion that I don’t want to be pregnant. I just got attached when I thought that I was pregnant and when I found out that I wasn’t a part of me felt like I lost something. Even though I never had it. So I thought about trying for a baby. But I think I was trying for the wrong reason. However I was also thinking that I do want to be pregnant within the next couple years. I want to be a younger mother (not necessarily young) but in my early 20’s. I’ve always thought about having starting a family before I turn 27ish. Now, I have 9 months left in my schooling and was wondering if you all think I might be ready afterwards? I’ll be 21 years old, my boyfriend is a really good guy and we plan to get married in a few years when he’s done university. We’re a really solid couple and when he thought I was pregnant he was on board fully and said that pregnant or not he was happy, I have a lot of money saved up and I know that I’ll be comfortable. right now I’m in a pretty good position to have a baby, but I just want to focus more on finishing college and stuff right now. So is it okay to start after my program is done? what do you think?[/color]

    Post edited by: acas, at: 2007/09/03 23:24

    #18727
    Avatarmommy6

    i think its your choice really but it sounds like you really want to finish school 1st n thers nothing wrong with that you will have a baby when the times right for you n your bf., hes great that hes supportive either way talk to him tell him what you think. n your not 40 so you ahve time to go to school n have your baby or babys. good luck

    #18733
    AvatarAnonymous

    I agree. Yu shouldn’t rush cause a baby is a lifelong relationship…

    #18834
    Avatarbreathless

    just wait till you’re ready, it sounds like you’re doing fantastic right now so maybe you should just wait till you and your boyfriend get married and then you can really have everything set in place. 🙂 the choice is yours, good luck love!
    Anna

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