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August 6, 2008 at 8:52 am #21821Anonymous
[color=#800080]well i’m 26 weeks pregant which would make me about 6 months. i’m 16 yrs old and i have a wonderful man that is happy that he is the daddy. my question is was it wrong to get married at 16 yes i had my wedding on july 4th.
i recently moved out with the expectd arrivel of my twin daughters. has any body else have some thing this great happen to then.[/color]August 6, 2008 at 7:10 pm #21825tragicxtryst
Well, I’ve certainly met quite a few couples that have lasted a lifetime after meeting in high school. I don’t see why you should be any different, right?
All worthy relationships take time and effort to stay intact. You’re lucky to have found someone who wants to be with you and the baby as much as you want him to be around; it truly is a blessing.
I wish you the best of luck with your relationship and remember that if you want it to work, you must be willing to work. 😆
[/color][/size][/b]August 7, 2008 at 2:25 am #21831jaedhasmom
WOW.. I DONT KNOW IF I WOULD CONSIDER THAT AS WONDERFUL YES I WAS 17 WHEN THE FATHER OF MY DAUGHTER AND I GOT A APARTMENT OF OUR OWN BUT IS IS SO HARD TO MAINTAIN A HOUSE HOLD AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE..JUST BE PREPARED FOR LIFE’S UPS AND DOWNS:kiss:August 7, 2008 at 3:53 am #21832Shluna105
I do not think that there is anything wrong with marriage at such a young age. I got married at 18, and I am 19 now. So 2 yrs is no big deal. As long as you are happy that is all that matters.August 7, 2008 at 11:31 pm #21849Anonymous
Congratulations on your pregnancy and on your marriage! 🙂
I think that it’s fine to get married young! Hey, if you’re old enough to have a baby you’re old enough to get married! 😉
Good luck with everything hun!August 11, 2008 at 6:54 am #21869Anonymous
thank you everyoneAugust 11, 2008 at 9:30 pm #21878MissMyKidz
No it’s not wrong! He’s taking care of you! Things are going to be hard and you are both going to have to make a huge effort to keep things working but I know that you can. Rely on God for strength and He will get you through. Good luck with you’re new marriage and the pending arrival of your daughters!!! Love you, take care!!!!August 12, 2008 at 7:51 am #21881Anonymous
that you and i have been with god through all of this this is how i made it this far.August 18, 2008 at 1:31 pm #21931kez_mummy_2_skye
I dont think there is a right or wrong age but if you guys felt ready then good on you.
I got married at 19 and had my first kid at 19- i was 5mths pregnant at my wedding 🙂August 21, 2008 at 11:14 am #21956nadza
hey girl im 16 2 wit a beautiful 6month girl, im married 4 a year already 🙂 i got married wen i was 15!! im sooo happy but, it aint all a walk in the park… theres real ups n downs be prepared! its not like dating always remember that n jus WORK thrw d probz
congratz n wish u all d best, if u need a friend or jus wana chat, u know where 2 click
xxxAugust 21, 2008 at 11:37 pm #21963Anonymous
I strongly believe that their is no wrong age to get married. As long as you are ready, you are ready. I understand that marriage is a wonderful bond that takes very difficult work to make happen for a lifetime, as it should be.
I thought that I would sound crazy, but I want to marry my boyfriend. I always had doubts that it would never work until now. He told me a couple weeks ago out of the blue “I want to marry you. I really do. I realize that what I’ve always wanted was someone to love me the way that you do.” Hearing that meant the world to me and I realized that I felt the same way. Anytime we have broken up or separated, it’s like we’re still together even though we’re not together. We always get drawn back to eachother, we have an amazing bond. The problem is our age. I have no doubts that we can’t make it, but I don’t want to say that because what everyone else would say: “Oh, you’re just going through a phase.” He’s everything that I’ve ever wished for in a man, father, and husband. I hate calling him my boyfriend. It doesn’t seem strong enough for everything that he’s done for me. Of course, their is financial issues that would need to be solved. I never thought it was possible to be married at 15, even though it is legal. Our parents would never agree, but then again- they don’t know how strong our feelings are for one another. They don’t know how much I truely know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him, and be a family with this little baby on the way.
I’m sorry for the rambling. I was just wondering, am I being rational? Should I look into it?
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