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    foreverhisz
    Faith Smith

    im 16 and a junior in high school. i took a at home pregnancy test yesterday && it turned out positive. im scared to tell neone im pregnant even the one i love. i already feel nausa and i get the feeling of wanting to puke. i want an abortion because i know i cant take care of a baby at the age of 16.i know theres no way of getting around telling them because to have an abortion papers have to be signed and how much it cost. i have my whole life ahead of me especially graduating high school and going on to college. im extremely scared to tell my parents. im scared of what they will say and how they will react. they will be disappointed in me. what do i do? how do i tell them? im afraid they will end up takin the one i love away from me. someone please help or give me some advice

    #14795
    ashleymarie07
    ashley martin

    i know how you feel. but i am not saying go ahead with the abortion because i know everyone i know and everyone i have ever talked to who has gotten one ihas ended up regretting you. i will only say you make the right decision for you. but you have to tell your parents i know its going to be hard o tell them but you need to tell them. and u need to tell the baby’s father. before making the decision for the baortion talk to evryone to make sure you will do the right thing for you. i am here if you need to talk just give me a shout!!

    #14796
    roddi
    Roddi Franck

    Please before you make an appointment to have an abortion read the posts here on stand up girl. There are many girls that went though an abortion and regret it after words. Once the abortion is preformed it can’t be undone. Please read the stories of other girls on this site. Other girls have had there babies & gone on to finish there schooling. You can too & these girls will help you when ever they can. I will be praying for you that you will choose life for your baby. Thank You Roddi:

    #14803
    FrancesBeanMommy
    Jasmine Varnell

    I know this is a scary thing. But do you really think that aborting your child will make things better? If you really think that you cannot be a mother yet, then save your child for someone else who badly wants to be a parent and for some reason or another can’t have children of their own. I fear that if you abort your baby, there will be extreme emotional repurcussions, not to mention the physical damage that can happen from abortions. Please talk to someone close to you about this, or get back with me if you want to talk. Abortion may seem like the easy way out, but nothing can erase the life inside you. And if you did decide to keep your baby and parent instead of putting him/her up for adoption, you could make it through school. It is NOT impossible. It may be rough, yes, but not impossible. Good luck to you, and please think before you take the "easy" way out. Love and God bless.

    #14806
    alexandmarcus
    Alex Molyneux

    hey,

    if i was you then i would just tell my parents. Belive me it wont be as bad as you expected it to be! they might be mad and dissapionted at first but they will come around. Please re think the abortion it will be the biggest mistake of your life if you go through with it! You will always wonder how your life would of been if you had your baby.

    email me if you want to talk

    Alex

    #14808
    Lats
    Tash Constable

    why do u think u cant do it? i was 16 wen i got pregnant and now my son is 15months old and ive never been happier! i finished skool and im bout to start a degree. make sure u think about all of your options. but if thats what you truly want then no one can stop you. your parents may surprise you and support woteva decision you make

    #14816
    bweber
    Brenda Simons

    please don’t get an abortion…there are so many parents out there that would love to adopt a new baby…..and it doesnt’ cost anything to give ur baby to a great family!…….

    #14840
    angel_gal84
    lisa donnelly

    please dont get an abortion its not worth it. I had an abortion 3 months ago and its the most hardest thing in the world. I was pushed into having one by my boyfriend, he kept on saying get rid of it coz its not even a baby yet, or we aint ready or if you get rid of it we will get engaged. He proposed to me so he kept his promise.

    The day that i found out that i was pregnant he told me to organise for an abortion, I was 8 weeks pregnant. i knew right there and then that i should have left him, but i thought that he would come around and accept that i was pregnant but he didnt, he even punch me in the stomach, but not hard enough to make me have a miscarrage

    After i had my abortion i went into depression and i still have got it, i have to tabe tablets and see a social worker once a week coz i cant get over what happened. I have flush backs about what happend that day, i get them everyday and when i start crying, my partner always says we have done the right thing, but hes not the one that went through the operation so he does not know what i have been through

    I wish to this day that i left him and kept my baby. So please think it through before you make any decision that is going to change the rest of your life

    #14841
    ericklirios
    Erick Lirios

    Hi.

    Please don’t be scared of your parents. Don’t even mind it if they get angry with you. Do the right thing and protect that baby of yours. If you get an abortion, you will go through the rest of your life knowing that you’re supposed to have one of God’s little miracles with you and you said no to it and to Him.

    One of the reasons why I became part of a website like this is because I saw just how many young girls have gotten pregnant and here they are giving strength to one another. One other reason is that I took part in an abortion and because of that, I have killed one of my daughters and the two daughters that I have now will have to go through life not knowing what a beautiful girl and woman their elder sister could have been. Lastly, as I am a father now, I want to give you girls hope. Please understand that we parents get mad often because we’re so scared that when we leave this earth, you may not be okay. We love our kids — we just sometimes don’t know how to show you.

    Your parents love you. Let them be mad or disappointed but stand your ground. Show them that you can be mature. They’ll probably ask you if you’re ready for all this and what a mess you’ve gotten into. Just remember that that’s probably what they told you also when you spilled milk a long time ago, wrote on the walls, broke some furniture, etc.

    Protect your little miracle and sooner or later, they will come around. Parent can’t turn their backs on their children for long and even more, they cannot turn their backs on their grandchildren.

    You’re 16 and it seems scary. Your little baby will make the rst of your life worthwhile. Won’t it be such a great blessing being maybe 25 and your bestfriend and confidant is a 9-year old boy/girl?

    Lastly, if you really need help, this site is a good source. Also, go to your church and make sure you listen to pastors/priests who value life. Also, if you need to talk to someone who’s been there, done that and is happily married enjoying the fact that I do have children whom I didn’t lose to abortion, feel free to email.

    Erick

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