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January 9, 2009 at 1:38 am #23713DamagedOx
Okk.. So Im Pritty Mature For My Age i Found Out Yesterday Im Pregnant. I Have A 4 And A Half week baby in my Tummy.. Wow.. What can i say well i defo cant say i planned it. Yes the husband knows my mum knows blah blah! as im 15 i think i have to get rid of it becasue like cummon im 15 as much as i want some one to love and care for its just not goin to happen im thinking… Dont get me wrong i would LOVE to have a baby .. Problem there 40 weeks of fealing like total rubish and being sick Mmmm i couldnt handle that at the moment .. So i Took On Te Role Of Gettin It Aborted… I Have not stop crying since my interview … theres 2 ways gett it sucked out or take 3 pills the pills stop the blood flow to the baby ITS LIKE SUFFOCATING IT .. i cant to that .. i cant face abortion but i cant have it…. i cry every time of thinking im goin to lose a part of me my own daughter (it may not be a full baby yet but its still my daughter). I Just needa Bit of help realy 🙁 And if youv read all This Thankyou SO Much im sorry its so long.. Its Crazy Tho im in bits 🙁 xJanuary 9, 2009 at 9:03 pm #23721Evangeline
Big hugs hun, yr at the right place if it’s advice yr looking for. I am so that yr in this predicament and so confused about solutions. I know what it’s like to be faced with the question of what the next step is.
Not all women have morning sickness, so if that’s all that’s really motivating your decision, please think again- I can’t describe to you how I would do ANYTHING to feel that way again. If you have made up your mind, get counseling before and after, it’s imperative that you prepare yourself emotionally.
If you’re still uncertain, please think again about this. A lot of the girls here will tell you that an AB is not final and that emotionally there are alot of repercussions.
A baby is a blessing, we are never given a task that God doesn’t think we’re capable of doing.
Whatever you decide, please keep posting and update us on how you’re doing. Prayers and positive thoughts,
Evangeline.January 10, 2009 at 1:58 am #23728emeraldforestmyheartbro
Hey hun PLEASE reconsider getting an abortion. it’s not worth it, check out this site if u dont believe me, aboriton is barbaric.
please try to calm down, think about this. if you get an aboriton, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Even putting the baby up for adoption would be better. it’s not just a clump of cells, its a BABY, human life in the making. That child will grow up to have likes and dislikes and opinions and favourite colours.. I mean I know you are young, i mean hell im only 16, but please, try to think of how getting an aboriton would haunt you for the rest of your life.
I wish the best for you, keep us updated.
-Enya <3January 10, 2009 at 2:07 am #23730liquidsunshine13
Ok well you never mentioned anything about how the father or your parents feel about this so maybe you should also take into consideration whether they are supportive or not..its really not going to be as bad as you think, especially if you have the backing of your parents. Abortion is a very big decision to make and not one to be taken lightly. Read about some of the experiences people on this site have had and it may open your eyes to the effect abortion can have on you afterwards. It often leaves a more negative effect than if you had carried a baby to term and either kept it or given it up for adoption. If you do decide to keep the baby, be aware that there is plenty of support available to you and you wont be going through it alone. Good LuckJanuary 13, 2009 at 1:01 am #23769Anonymous
I know that this is a really scary thing, to be pregnant at 15, but you can do this. Please don’t abort your baby, to be honest abortion is really horrible even if that’s what you really want, but if you don’t really want it it’s going to be really devastating.
Pregnancy really isn’t that bad, and at the end you have a beautiful baby, whether you keep it or give it up for adoption.
If you have this abortion you will regret it for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
Just don’t do anything that you will regret.
Hugs!June 6, 2012 at 4:04 am #28612Anonymous
Please. please reconsider! I am 30 weeks along and I have not felt horrible at all. I only got sick 2 times because of something I smelled….other than that everyone keeps saying how healthy I look. Don’t assume your pregnancy is going to be bad! You should really talk with your parents and the father before you make any drastic decisions! There are so many supportive people out there available to help you and give life to your baby! How do you already know it’s a girl at 4 1/2 weeks? I wish I knew that early!
There are so many positive things that can some our of this pregnancy and all that comes from abortion is a lifetime of regret and sorrow. If you go to http://www.optionline.org or call 1-800-712-HELP they can get you in contact with a center in your town that you can go to for free and confidential help. They can go through all the options with you and help you find the resources you need to continue forward!
Don’t give up hope yet!
Luv- DawnJune 12, 2012 at 2:50 am #28615Sammy
A decision to abort your baby or to have it is a tough decision. I faced the same thing last year in December. To be honest though, I don’t think you should abort your baby. I am 17, 16 when I found out I was pregnant, but my boyfriend (now fiance) wanted me to abort it. I had it all planned out and had a date set to go, but I ended cancelling it and now I am 34 weeks pregnant and couldn’t be more excited to see my baby girl ! My fiance is ecstatic as well also. He grew to love the fact of a baby is going to be in our lives and I know that 40 weeks seems like a long time, but really its not. You are getting to experience a joyous and wonderful part of life, and to give life to a baby, your baby. At 15, the decision is way tougher, you are way younger and still have a lot going for you, but also knowing that you saved a wonderful baby and brought it into the world, is twice the joy you could ever have. Its simply a miracle. Your mom will learn to accept the fact, but in reality, its YOUR decision in the end.June 13, 2012 at 4:28 am #28616renee
Thanks for sharing Sammy! How awesome you will see your little girl soon (and way to go and cancel the appointment.) Your baby will be the hugest blessing 🙂
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