Knowing when you are in love is difficult. I can look back at boys that I have dated and remember being in love with them. Even though we were both in love, we eventually broke up. I learned that you can love someone, but your relationship might now work out.
Love is funny. It’s not practical and it is especially not wise. It’s easy to think that if you love someone you should have sex with them to let them know how you feel. However, sex is more then telling someone you love them.
The truth of the matter is, real love can only be attained through marriage. The reason it can only be attained through marriage is because the two people have made a lifelong commitment to love each other. In other words, real love is not the good feelings that you get from your boyfriend, it’s the lifelong commitment that makes it love.
If you are not married to him, it’s not the right time to lose your virginity. When/if you do marry him, then it is the right time to lose your virginity.
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