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September 1, 2006 at 8:05 am #11661dit07
I am currently 11 weeks pregnant, due in March. The father and I are both college students, and I have decided to keep the baby. He is not thrilled at all, and after much fighting, broke up with me over it. I was devastated. Now we are talking again, and have decided we are "on a break" and may get back together. I would do anything for him to be there….because even though I have support from my friends and my mother, I feel so lonely without him there, talking with me about what’s going on with this. I know that this happens to a lot of single pregnant women, the father just drops out. But I really didn’t think he was like this, it’s so not him. I was wondering if someone else could share a story of encouragement or anything about a situation like this, I cry everyday about it, I just don’t know what to do.September 2, 2006 at 4:45 am #11664haley
heygirl whats up you and i have almost the same exact situation. im almost 12 weeks due in march also and when i found out that i was pregnant i thought that the father would be excited because he had talked about it before but when i told him he was shocked and he denied it and said it wasnt his and that i should get an abortion and just get rid of it but when he found out that i decided to have this child he was furious we fought everyday for almost a month and he said he wasnt going to be there then we just broke up i was devasted because i wanted my child to have his father there but i didnt have a say in it he had his mind set on leaving and there was nothing i could do…. but now i realized dont dwell on it because you never know who is out there im not saying to give up on him but hey i spent too much time feeling sorry that i missed the most amazing guy. well now him and i are dating and the first thing i told him before we started was that i was pregnant and he was excited and was asking me if he could be there for my child because he knew the father and what was going on. im not telling you to drop this guy but if he is still the way he is in a bit then just dont stress about it stress can cuse problems to o your child and now you dont want that do you?? keep me updatedSeptember 9, 2006 at 1:01 pm #11696Anonymous
Hey haley thanks for sharing your story with me. I’ve been having a really hard time dealing w/ the father, I’ve just been missing him so much. But I’m starting to realize that I don’t really want to be with someone who is going to cause me so much pain without a second thought. He keeps being so manipulaive to me, and making me feel like I’m a bad person. I guess we can’t choose who we fall in love with, and I know that this baby was made out of love and there’s nothing I can do to control what is going on now. I guess maybe he’ll change once he sees our beautiful child, and if he doesn’t, he’s just going to miss so much by being so selfish. Congratulations on meeting such a great guy already who wants to be a part of your child’s life, I only hope I will meet someone so great someday. Best of luck to you, and let me know how you’re doing as well.
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