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    Avatarlovelylouise

    i’m 15 and i think i’m 4weeks pregnant (not so sure because until now i didn’t do any pregnancy test)well actually i did once after i had a sex (10/2)and i did a pregnancy test (10/13)and it’s negative i don’t know why i do some crazy test although i know that i’n not…actually supposed to be my period for the month of October will be (10/18-10/20)…and ater we had a sex in 10/2…we did it again i 10/8,10/13,10/14,10/15….and until now my period didn’t came!!!….so I’m so so so stressed about Am I Pregnant??…this few weeks i felt some symptoms of being a pregnant like….

    _vomiting
    _tiredness
    _frequent urination
    _dizziness
    _of course what i said i missed my period
    _constipation
    _sometimes i’m so irritate of something i can’t explain
    _nausea….

    i can’t do some pregnant test because I’m scared also of what will be the result…and what I should do if it’s positive? how can I tell to my parents? they sure would kill me and of course how I’ll tell to the boy who is responsible for this because he say so he’s not ready..

    ok BOUT my boy actually he is not my boy friend…he’s just my brod(in our fraternity-sorority)and a good friend of mine…i fall for him because of his sweetness,caring…i don’t know i’m just comfortable with him..!!well I know he has a girl friend…although i know it still i do that thing SEX with him…how stupid Am I right…because i really really love him…he have a problem with her girl because his girl friend has no time for him so I have…so every time we get to a party I’m with him…I know and i felt it he is happy with me but the thing is still I’m not his girl friend and that’s my mistake…!!!

    about 2weeks when my period missed i talked to him i went to their house…I just want to know his answers and if he is ready…because i’m so scared at that time too…because i’m two weeks delay on my period so i want to ask him.I said to him that i think I’m pregnant and he’s sooooooo shocked and asked me if i did some pregnant test and I said NO and I don’t want to we’re shouting each other because he said so that he was afraid if her girl friend know about this problem and all he said to me that if it’s true that I’m pregnant he wants to ABORT it…and that thing is i don’t want to…so i said to him that i don’t even need you and until now we have no communication…!!!ahhh how stupid I am right? but still I DO LOVE HIM..!!!

    #23079
    Avatarjessey223

    Well you sure are in a hard place. I would say you should take a pregnancy test to find out if you are pregnant. Not taking the test is not going to change the result. If you are pregnant and you want to have the baby I think you should, you can do it without him. If your not I would learn from this and say to discontinue ATLEAST the sexual relationship with this guy. I know you said this is your mistake and sometimes when you are in the situation it is hard to see the logical part of it. You said you fell for this guy because he was so nice but really he is cheating on this girlfriend with you so what do you think he would do with you if you guys were dating? You deserve better then that and so does your child if you are pregnant. I wish you the best and I am here to talk anytime. Jessica

    #23104
    AvatarGangY

    let me ask you first… all this time you had UNPROTECTED SEX? like i see…you are knowing that you can get pregnant with SEX, also with protected, but even more possible with unprotected and countundiesd doing it?

    im not trying to be rude but… i just dont understand that.:blink:

    as for the guy… i know how you feel, one of my girlfriends is in the same situation, his friend with who she is having sex with has a girl, tells her that he has problems with her, so that they have sex… and she i soo in love with him that she cant stop. she knows its not right and that she deservs better, but she still is doing it… hope youll get the strenght to stop it!

    my best of luck!

    #23326
    Avataralyssaj2394

    dont do something something you dont want to do. and if he doesnt want to bbe there for you ad the baby of you are preg, than thats his loss!!! dont look back and dont feel stpid babby’s dad did or does run a prostitution ring and i didnt know about that until i was 8 months, and worst all my friends knew and i didnt.. im the 1 who should feel stupid..lol:laugh: :laugh:

    #23543
    Avataralyssaj2394

    did you ever find out if yu were prego…

    #24221
    Avatarsophia roses mummy

    did you ever find out if you were pregnant?

    gabby xx

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