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June 27, 2007 at 12:28 pm #17964xxHeavenxx
I am 33 weeks pregnant with a baby girl:laugh: :woohoo: . She was due early August, but i am being induced in 5 weeks because of my diabetes. I am not with my daughters father since he cheated on my twice during the time i have been pregnant. Im heartbroken. I still love him dearly. He has always said he will be there for the two of us no matter what and still calls over 20 times a day begging for another chance saying he is sorry and he will do anything to make it up. But it wasnt just the once it was TWICE! Apart from the cheating all was great before. As much as i want to be with him i know i could never fully trust him again. I dont know what to do?:huh: :angry:June 28, 2007 at 2:03 am #17965Cherry_n_lil_bit
hun, i know what you’re going through. my husband left me on my due date for my ex best friend. but, i’m glad he did it, because i don’t want that sort of heartache around my son. you don’t deserve that kind of strees, especially while you’re pregnant. it will be ok. i promise.June 28, 2007 at 8:34 am #17969LillieAunas_Mommy
Congradulations on the baby. This might not sound like advice to you but just do what you think is best. Personaly I wouldn’t give him another chance he ruined that the 2nd time he cheated. He can always be there for the 2 of you and he can always be the father figure but that doesn’t mean you have to be with him. Do what your heart tells you.
KaitlinJune 28, 2007 at 11:18 am #17972lula
my mom always said, you can’t make a leopard change it’s spots. just because you love someone doesn’t mean you should be with them. trust me, you will love again, and after having your baby you will see that you need to consider what’s best for the both of you. being a role model is real now. you don’t want your child seeing you jerked around by this guy. it’s not worth it. protect your child from witnessing this jerk and create a civil and mature relationship, based on one and only one mutual interest — the child. that’s it.June 28, 2007 at 4:28 pm #17978DianaSN
I NO HOW U FEEL AND ONCE SUM 1 MAKES U LOSE TRUST IN THEM ITS HARD 2 GET IT BACK BUT IF U FEEL U CAN WORK IT OUT U TRY AND IF U DNT U BOTH B GUD PARENTS AND DNT LET IT EFFECT THE CHILDJune 29, 2007 at 2:21 am #17981Young mum 2 be
Sorry 2 say but once a cheater always a cheaterJune 29, 2007 at 4:59 am #17991mommy6
well hon your heart is going to hurt cause you trusted him n it will be hard to trust another man again dont do it dont take him back cause if he did it twice he will do it again hes a pig sorry. youll be ok it will take time but def let him be around to help the baby you dont need to be with him to have help. youll find a good non chating man one day it will take time but it will happen theres good men out there.congrats on your baby n dont answer the phone everytime he calls let him suffer make him know hes done .good luckJune 29, 2007 at 4:41 pm #18002tashie
i know what you are going through. my partner cheated on me twice. he is a bouncer at clubs and is always around the ‘lovely ladies’. he went home with a couple of them.
after the first time i turned a blind eye. i loved him. he promised me he had changed. itook him back. the second time was horrible. guys like that dont change. these are the two I KNOW ABOUT let alone the ones i dont.
i stayed with my partner for 3 years. i was an idiot for doing so, but i did. what pushed me over the line was that when i was in labour with our son (our second baby) he was on the phone with his mistress!!!! please dont put yourself through the heartache i did. you CAN do it alone. get support from family and friends. keep yourself busy and you will be ok. dont put yourself in an unhappy environment, remember…. if ur not happy, ur baby is not happy.
i am now with the most wonderful man ever. he cares for me and my kids so well. there is a guy out there for you who will treat you right., u deserve it.
one other thing i wanted to add….
my main philosophy for a relationship is if there is no trust then there is no relationship. my relationship got to thepoint where i couldnt trust him to go to work and come home of an evening. if you cant trust ur fella, dont put urself in the position of stressing where he is and what he is doing all the time. relax and break it off.
take care, good luck and let me know what happens.
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