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March 18, 2005 at 2:20 am #7015Anonymous
O.K.,here is the deal… i’m 26 years old, have two beautiful girls. I got pregnant with my first child before I was married. When she was 6 mo. me and my boyfriend decided to get married. During our marraige we had another baby girl. For the past 6mo. I have been separated from my husband. I am in the beginning processes of a divorce. I have met a guy and we have been intimate. I am on birth control, but I didn’t have a period last week(when I was suppose to). Which could be stress from the devorce. I am SO worried that I might be pregnant, but I’m so scared to take a test. if I am pregnant, I feel that an abortion is my only option. If I didn’t abort I would definatly keep the baby. I am concerned about my children. With all the stress going on already with them, I don’t know how they would react to another baby right now. As far as the guy..he has no clue and I’m not concerned with him. I am taking care of two by myself..I know I could handle three. The main problem is…I am going through this divorce and I’m sure that if I’m pregnant it will not be good for my case!! I know that sounds selfish, but I really don’t think I could have another child right now. Please help me, I’m a nervous wreck!March 20, 2005 at 3:23 pm #7040lisa
Dearest Carole – may I share that abortion is truly not the option. I truly believe that if you have your baby, your kids would be so blessed! Don’t you think? A new baby in the house is always so wonderful and everyone wants to chip in and be a part of it.
Carole, your case should not be affected by being pregnant. This is a divorce case not anything other than that. Your current pregnancy shouldn’t have any bearing on your case. But truly – even though it is a rough time, by having an abortion, you will just add to the difficulty of your life and your emotions right now. I hope you will consider life for your beautiful baby. Remember, that is your baby and if you can do it right now, then I would say ‘please Carole’ don’t make the same mistake that I made. I did not choose life for my babies and that was many years ago. I regret it to this very day. I don’t want you living with that pain. Please Carole – consider life for your kids baby brother or sister.
Please let me know if I can help any further.
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