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  • #12437
    AvatarAnonymous

    im 14 years old i had sex for my first time and im so scared i could have gotten pregnate we used a condom and he didnt cum and i got my peroid the day after we did it. could i be pregnate? and i know i wasn’t ready so would i be looking for the syntoms to closley?
    please help me:(

    #12442
    AvatarAnonymous

    Just relax! B)
    I doubt very much that you are pregnant and worrying about it is not going to do you any good, You used a condom and while not 100% effective, they are very good. Also, it was the day before your period, which you got, and the best time to get pregnant is two weeks before your period.
    I suggest you speak to your man and take a step back, You’re obviously not ready to sleep with him if your this worried. I think this was your minds way of telling you that you need a bit more time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and please don’t be pressured into doing things you don’t want to. I know it’s exciting and you feel like your loved, but believe me, there’s no harm in second thoughts. Remember, if he won’t wait, do you really want to be with someone as controlling and selfish as that? If he respects your descion, he’s a hell of a man,
    While it’s not my place to tell you what to do, do you really think 14 is old enough to be having to cope with these worries? Think back on the last few days and how much stress it’s all put you under.
    It’s entirely up to you, of course.
    Chill out, chick and I hope this has helped.;)

    #12596
    AvatarAnonymous

    :unsure: well could i just be over exaderating the thought of all the syntoms?
    and is it 100 percent sure that im not pregnate if he did not enjaculate?

    #12665
    Avatarbweber

    even with the use of a condon, and being the day b4 ur period is is still NOT 100% that u r not pregnant……..i’d say it’s more like 90% that ur not….just because a guy doesn’t ejaculate doesn’t mean a girl can’t get pregnant, because the male pre-ejeculate has sperm in it and because of you age you period may not be set on how it comes, and it is also possible for a female to get pregnant on her period…….srry if i worried you, i just didn’t want to lie to you and tell you that 100% you’d be fine……………………just wait till you are due up for another period….and if you weren’t ready to have sex don’t do it again……..that’s the only logical thing to do……

    #12829
    AvatarAnonymous

    when does a guy pre-enjaculate?

    #12948
    Avatarbweber

    it can come out at anytime before and during sex…..

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