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March 24, 2007 at 5:58 am #16160Mommieofchris
okay well i’ve posted before about this sorta.. but last night and the night before my babys dad keeps breaking up with me, yelling at me telling me how horriable i treat him, when he expects me to have sex with him, expects me to cuddle, and kiss, when i stay with him he expects me to get the baby during the night when he crys.. and gets angry when i tickle him, or ask him to deal with the baby, or something.. hes never hit me… but he yells so much, and curses at me, and when i beg him to stop he wont.. we were supost to get married in july, and move intogether.. but the apartment he was supost to get two months ago.. fell down the drain because he spent almost 2000 dollars on his car.. that we were saving for our own place! i just dont know what to do.. my parents wont pay for my medical and im on their insurance.. they wont give me my medical insurance information so i cant go to the denist for my wisdom teeth that is causing prob lems with my jaw. so i figured once i was married i would deal with my own insurance though the state, and get all that fixed but i cant do that since were nto getting married, but she wont take care of me.. i dont know what to do, i would be better on my own seriously.. :Tears: i just dont know what to do or what i can do.March 24, 2007 at 5:10 pm #16177sibzy
THIS GUY IS BAD FOR YOU!
HE IS BREAKING YOUR SPIRIT AND MAKING U UNHAPPY. ITS A BAD INVIROMENT FOR A BABY. U NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR PARENTS AND HELP THEM SEE THAT YOU NEED THEM TO UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU COMING FROM.
GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT, BE PATIENT MAYBE THINGS WILL SORT THEM SELVES OUT BUT FOR NOW START SAVING AND PLANNING TO LEAVE THIS GUY BECAUSE HE IS JUST MAKING THINGS WORSE.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND YOUR HEART.
U NEED TO LEAVE HIM FOR YOURSELF AND FOR YOUR BABIES FUTURE.
GOODLUCK!!!March 27, 2007 at 10:18 am #16279Meg11
I agree that you should leave this guy…I went through something similar with my daughters father. I think that if you leave this guy and start making healthy choices for you and baby that your parents will be more willing to help you out. They probably dont want to condone your relationship with him and they dont want to enable you to stay with an abusive guy. I hope that things work out soon so please keep us informed 🙂 Love and Prayers…Meg
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