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February 23, 2009 at 8:16 pm #24220sophia roses mummy
im 16 years old and i had an abortion of my litle girl when i was 15 years old its been 6months and 2 weeks today i was 6months and 1 week pregnant i didt tell my mum and dad till i was 5months and 3 weeks pg and they made me have the abortion, my mum said if i didt have the abortion she would do it herself so i had no choice atall and it broke my heart aborting my litle girl and i will never ever forgive myself for whats happend but it does help in a way that i did actually do the best thing for my daughter because i was not ready to be a mum and i was too young and nieve when i got pregnant and i did learn the hard way i guess, but my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years on the 4th march 2009 but ollie hates to talk about sasha-lou i say he hates to talk about her he never does anymore
before i told my mum and dad i was pregnant me and ollie wanted to keep her but i was really scared and confuesed on what to do.
if anyone wants to talk about wever to have a abortion, im happy to talk
because it is iriversable and it’s so hard to move on and forgive yourself i kno i wont ever be able to forgive what i did to my daughter but you can try and move on with you’re life.
thankyou for reading 🙂
love Gabby Hunter
x xSeptember 24, 2009 at 1:02 am #25790sxyx85
hi gabby, i was touch by your story, i had abortion on 30/6/2007 i was 6wks pregnant and 21 year old and my mother made me get one 2, she threat take away my four year old daughter katie who was 2 at the time and it was worst mistake of my life i still fink my wee angel, and now i found im pregnant again due in dec 09 and my mum tried to get me have ano abortion told me she gave me money do go over england again, but i refused and she would talk to me luck for me she lives in spain now but i would never put myself through that never again and found out im expecting a boy , i know you feel guilty but not you fault and enjoy this pregnancy hun and good luck with your baby girl your make a good mum 🙂September 30, 2009 at 6:49 am #25810ChanandBaby
i read your post.
im 16 and just found out im pregnant. about 4 weeks along is all. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and he wants me to get an abortion and says he refuses to be a father and that i have to pick the baby or him. I want to keep the baby. I told my parents and i think they are willing to help me take care of it. but im just so sad and confused. should i get an abortion or keep it?
chandler and babySeptember 30, 2009 at 5:32 pm #25814queenB
It sounds to me that you really don’t want to have an abortion. It sounds like you are considering this because it is what your boyfriend wants. I think if I were you I would consider what you want. You, after all, will have to live with the side effects and complications of abortion for the rest of your life – not him.
What is so amazing is that your parents are willing to help you!! You are in a good position – you are not totally on your own.
I think that if I were you I would listen to what your heart is telling you to do and not your boyfriend. Right now you have a wonderful little baby inside of you. He or she deserves to have the chance to live. He or she is not to blame and should not be punished.
I think you are a Stand Up Girl and I think that you can do this. I think that you have what it takes to be a mother.
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