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November 25, 2006 at 5:01 am #13393Mommytwice
Help, please. I am thirty four weeks pregnant with twin girls, and I have two small children already. The problem is, my husband just decided to leave me and his kids for another girl. He treats us like he hates us now, and acts like he doesn’t want anything to do with any of us. He isn’t working, so me and the kids have no money, and the twins don’t have everything that they need. I’m so scared, he’s been part of my life for four years, since we had just turned fifteen, and I don’t know how I am going to do this all by myself. My son is two and a half, and my daughter is eleven months, and, the doctor says that my babies could deliver anyday now because I have been in and out of the hospital with contractions three times in two weeks, and I just don’t know where I am supposed to find the strength to do this all myself. I feel like my whole life is crashing and burning, and theres nohting that I can do about it. I didn’t sign up to do this alone, it’s just not fair, and I am so scared. I don’t want to have surgery alone. Any words of encouragement will definatly help, please give me some input, my babies are coming any day now. Help.
Michelle JonesNovember 26, 2006 at 6:07 am #13416Anonymous
I know things seem really bad right now but you have to be as strong as you can. When the storm is comming just smile because the sun is going to come out and shine. You’re going to make it through the struggle. The bigger the storm the bigger the blessing.
much love, sgurlNovember 26, 2006 at 8:56 am #13421Anonymous
You are doing a very brave thing. No matter what your husband does you are right for defending the lives of you children. I was a triplet and my mom went into labour at 32 weeks. She had a C section and was fine. I am sure your surgery will go well too and your twins will be fine. Mom never regretted giving life to me and my sisters. Stay strong and know you have been in my prayers for months and that I will keep praying for you. You are not alone, even though you can not see me I am here for you. Feel free to keep posting, I will try to answer. I would love to hear about it when the twins are born.November 26, 2006 at 11:30 pm #13427mummykayz
heya honey i cant imagine wot ur goin thru but if it helps i hav 2 babys and im single too.
im sure youl b a fantastic mummy- if their dad doesnt want then it just means you get al their love to yourself.
lotsa luv kayleigh xxx
Post edited by: SweetTea, at: 2006/11/26 13:58November 28, 2006 at 5:10 pm #13471kez_mummy_2_skye
AWW girl.You poor thing. Your man doesnt seem to have any respect for you or the kids, thats not nice at all.
Is there any family support out there for you guys? Can you get help from a Support service for other baby things?
I hope things go well for you and the kids and try not too stress too much coz that will bring on labour too.
Keep us updated
KezJuly 10, 2007 at 9:47 pm #18165gen02
Hi,it must really be a scary feeling,the person who was there when the angels were conceived has sudenly decided to bail on u,what i can say is "God does not give u a battle that he knows u wont b able to win at the end,and God does not make things easy however he makes them possible.U will get through this,it might not seem that way now,however u will.U r in my thoughs,heart and prayers,plz keep us posted.And keep ur head high and show ur husband ur tough and u will get through this with or without him.:cheer:July 11, 2007 at 1:35 am #18170mommy2lucas
i know it seems like u are stuck or whatever but just remember nothing is impossible and these children are in your life for a reason! just be strong!July 12, 2007 at 4:55 am #18212mommy6
well your strong if you came for advice thats the first step in the right direction., i know your scared n you never thought he would leave but hes not a man if he could leave his family for some girl who isnt much of a woman for taking him but thats good for them cause god doesnt like ugly meaning they will get tons of bad luck., be strong your kids need you seek support from all your friends n family members rite now you dont have to go through it alone ask a family member to go with you you can do it trust me i have 6 kids grannted i have my man but he doesnt do much anyways i bel in you you can do youll be ok youll get through it will work out keep your head up n stay strong if you ever need to talk you can email me., n good luck to youJuly 19, 2007 at 4:09 pm #18325breathless
That’s such a terrible thing to happen to you, but be strong. Look through your tears and grab on to anything you can, accept all the support you can. Everyone has a guardian angel and I believe yours will be standing by you the whole time. I can’t say this will get better, because maybe it won’t but if you just get pushing through this you’ll come out from this dark time and reach the light where you can finally take a deep breath and let it all out. Please be strong, you can’t quit now, your children need you and you need them, togethor you guys will make it through this and come out stronger. No one should have to struggle (especially over the selfish act of your husband) but the life loves to test us and I believe you are strong enough to get through it. Cry till you can’t anymore and take one day at a time. I truthfully hate that advice, especially when I’m getting it, but I’ve found it to work in situations like these. I believe in you, and I believe in your children. Hold on to eachother for dear life because finally, at the end of it all you are NOT the only one there for you, your children are they too, and they love you for loving them. Believe, and you can do it.
Good luck always,
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