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May 18, 2010 at 3:20 am #27115Anonymous
I am so scared. Just last Saturday night, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and of course he did ejaculate inside of me and I am so scared. I didnt want that but he forced me to. I am only 15 and I am scared. I wont know that I am pregnant until next week because that is when I am supposedly getting my period. I just dont really want the symptoms. He said if I am he will give me money and take me to all of my doctors appointments but wont be their to help with the baby. This scares me because I have my 2 best friends that I do not want to lose at all. And my mom is somewhat an alcoholic and my dad hits me so I really don’t know what to do anymore. I would just like somebody to help me and give me advice.May 20, 2010 at 6:45 am #27119gloriela_rocker_pink
wow… i dnt believe that ur dad does dat to u… and for the boyfriend, he forced u?? dats not good.. my name is gloria im 17. i advice u to go to a clinic and take a blood test its the best way to know if u r pregnant… how old r u? Im pregnant 8 weeks and 6 days… my family r supportive now, but not at first…May 21, 2010 at 12:14 am #27124Meg11
Hey there, My name is Meg and I am so sorry for what you are facing at the moment….so when you say your boyfriend forced you did he violently rape you, hold you down and such or did he just pressure you to the point where you gave in and “put up with him” doing what he wanted? If he forcibly, violently raped you, you can and should report him to the authorities…I mean if he would do this to someone like you who apparently cares for him what is he capable of doing to someone down the road? How old is he and how long have you been together? If your friends are true and best then they will not abandon you in this time of need, if they do, they are not worthy of your friendship….the best thing you can do for now is to take a pregnancy test, go ahead and wait until after your period is due, if you are late then take a test with your first mornings urine the next morning…if it is negative then wait another week, if you are still late then retest, once again first thing in the am….if you are not late and you start your period then go ahead and wait until your period is over and take a test just to set your mind at ease, just always be sure to test first thing in the am….have you told anyone else about your father hitting you, like a school counselor or another family member outside the home? Has he ever caused injury other than bruising? I just want you to know that I am here for you, my stepdad used to beat me when I was little and I know what it is like to feel the pain and rejection and fear….anyways take a test and please let me know what you find out, here is a number to call to see about getting a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test….1-800-395-HELP, they will give you the number and location to the closest Pregnancy Resource Center to you….also here is my email if you ever just need a real friend…Love Meg , email@example.comMay 21, 2010 at 6:25 am #27126Anonymous
I am only 15 years old. He litterally forced me. and I am going to try and go to the doctors next week. So ya.. I still don’t know how to tell my parents. Mom said she would kick me out if I ever get pregnant.May 21, 2010 at 6:27 am #27127Anonymous
Thank you so much. It makes me happy to know that somebody knows how I feel. None of my friends understand. They said if I ever get pregnant, they said that they would be mad at me but they would help me through it. I just hope I can do this. But thank you soooo much. Going next week to get a pregnancy test so I am nervous. Thank you once again. I so appreciate this. 🙂 <3
LindyMay 21, 2010 at 6:38 am #27128christyrose
It sounds like you need to stay away from your boyfriend if he is disrepecting you like that!! Maybe when you tell your mom she will be more understanding then you think expecially once she knows everything. I think you are doing a great job and you will be blessed either way out of this by a beautiful baby!!! I am pregnant too right now, and I have a drs appt next week. I am hoping to get to see the heartbeat this time. Let me know how your appt goes, sounds like our due dates are the same month!!May 21, 2010 at 6:48 am #27130Anonymous
Thank you so much. And yes I hope so too. That is great to think that our due dates will be in the same month. I feel so much better knowing that people are willing to listen and care and share their opinions on the matter. I was so scared this whole time, when really, their is nothing really to be scared about. 🙂May 21, 2010 at 3:52 pm #27133kamfernaz
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