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May 18, 2005 at 6:25 am #7862Anonymous
I have a few questions. Can u get pregnet by jus having unprotected sex. me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex but he pulled out before he injected in me. Im only 15 and I don’t know who to ask theses questions too. We did it one day before my period and 4 days after and then 7 days after. my period was on april 25 and 2day us may 17. I copuldnt possibly got pregnet and concived this fast. I was jus asking because i was wonderin can the boys have the pregnecy symptoms. He sleeps all the time, eats, and throws up out of no where! How far long do the girl have to be for him to have these symptoms? Also would the boy know he got somone pregnet before the girl? Thank you please help me!!! :ohmy: :ohmy:May 20, 2005 at 7:56 am #7946Mrs. Butterfly
To answer your questions yes. When I got pregnant last year before I miscarried my husband told me I was pregnant as soon as I came off of my period. And if you had sex taht soon after coming off of you period there is a big possiblity that you are pregnant. Just because he pulled out does not mean that while you were having sex he did not pre ejaculate. A man can not always pull out fast enough. As far as him having pregnanct symptoms that is possible to. Some may say that it’s a myth, but I fully believe in it and so does my whole family. That factor never fails. Wait a few more days and if you don’t see your period take a home pregnancy test. I hope I’ve answered your questions. Keep me posted.
Mrs. Butterfly :kiss:May 21, 2005 at 2:49 am #7972aprilmarie0204
There is a chance you could be pregnant, although it is a VERY slim chance. So don’t worry too much about that, but do think about not using withdrawl as a form of bith control. It is not very effective for the simple fact that millions of sperm are released while you are having sex, not just when he ejaculates. As for his "pregnancy" symptoms, men don’t usually get them until the woman does. There may be something wrong with him and he should probably go to the doctor. Mono is one thing that comes to mind. So try to not worry until your next period, and use some form of birth control. If you aren’t ready to have a baby you need to be really careful, it only takes one time. Take care.
AprilMay 21, 2005 at 2:32 pm #7978dorkalious_stud_muffin
WAIT, SO HAVING SEX SHORTLY AFTER YOUR PERIOD LEAVES A HIHGER RISK AT GETTING PERGNANT…OR IS IT BEFORE? I WAS WONDERING BECAUSE IM IN THE SAME SITUATION. AND MY OTHER QUESTION IS, IS IT SO HARD TO PULL OUT IN TIME? BECAUSE THIS GUY I WAS WITH GOT A SHOT IN ME…AND SOME GUYS WERE ALL SAYING "DOESNT HE NO HOW TO PULL OUT IN TIME"May 22, 2005 at 5:16 pm #7995Anonymous
I can understand how confusing it must be to be 15 and thinking you may be pregnant but here is a tip, why dont you try NOT having sex until you can understand FULLY the consequeces? I was 17 and I got pregnant, now I have a baby. I didnt even finish school and it was the biggest mistake I ever made. I love my daughter and she is the only thing that makes anything worth while but if I had a choice, I would definately wait until I had the patience and after I got at least SOME of my immaturity out of my system. My mom had me at an early age and she was hardly ever around for me. I love my mother but she was very selfish, she would leave me with 16 year old boys so she could go party and get drunk. I vowed that I would never be like that. And I lost my virginity when I was barely 16. My self esteem was very low, and I felt like my whole life was just crumbling. I was very fortunate that I didnt get pregnant then. If I were you, I would quit having unprotected sex, at least. If you ask the guy to wear a condom and he says no, he isnt worth it anyway. You are so much better than that, and I dont even know you. Just consider it or you’ll be 15 with a baby and probably not man around (not saying your boyfriend will leave you, but most guys do – at least at that age) and it will be so hard. Think long-term.
RachelMay 23, 2005 at 5:20 am #8009aprilmarie0204
Having sex right after your period doesn’t leave a chance to get pregnant because there is no egg to fertilize. If you have sex 12-15 days after your period then yes, there is a chance to get pregnant because that is when you are ovulating. Guys can pull out before they ejaculate, but there will still be sperm released during the entire process. It is NOT a good way to prevent pregnancy.
AprilMay 23, 2005 at 6:29 am #8010Anonymous
At 15 what are you doing having unprotected sex? You really need to find someone other than a computer to talk with. Birthcontrol really works and so does not having it at all. I am a very young mother of 2 kids. I pray that you find someone like a parent to care for your needs. A boy at a young age and a grown man get very caught up in emotion during sex NEVER depend od him as your form of safe sex. It is a hard life a a young mother and i pray for you this is just a scare. Please learne from this.May 23, 2005 at 2:35 pm #8012dorkalious_stud_muffin
wait, well someone once said that if you have sex shortly after your period, then you have a BIg chance of becoming pregnant….. (im actually already pregnant tho im just wondering) so is that wrong then?May 23, 2005 at 2:37 pm #8013Anonymous
GIRLS! What are we doing? To the young one who posted all the days in question…. It is obvious that some serious EDUCATION is lacking…. NO DAY is a safe day to have unprotected sex… and the 12-15th day from the first day you start bleeding (not spotting) is the most "FERTILE" days for SOME girls. NOT ALL! This is NOT a reliable birth control. If you would like to use the calendar method of BC consult a doctor, take you temp, test your mucus, and NEVER forget that it is JUST easier to NOT have sex at all then to stress out about pregnancy at any age. Also, most 15 yr. old "BOYS" have no clue what love is and very very few are mentally capable of meeting the needs of a preganant woman. Just because a guy can "CUM" does not mean he can "LOVE"! And sex is NOT love at all… Good luck all… 😛May 24, 2005 at 2:03 pm #8028Anonymous
April is right. A woman is fertile about two weeks after her period. so between 12 and 16 days after is when shes most likly to get pregnant. My advice is that it is so easy to get pregnant and when you do It is not a fun game. You are responsible for a whole nother human 24 7 and if you dont want that resposibility then stop having sex or use birth control because pulling out does not work. Sperm is in pre cum and sometimes a guy cant tell if he has pre cummed or not. I am a young woman and in two week will give birth to my 3rd daughter. All my kids are by the same guy and he is here and helps alot but even with his help and all of our familys help it is still very hard. and at your young agae your boyfriend may get scared and run. So think about this and decide to keep your youth. Remember a child is yours forever not just untill they turn 18. good luck.June 1, 2005 at 4:20 pm #8189Anonymous
yes a guy knows when to pull out, he’s fooling ya girl. watch out. no matter how sweet he is, or how much you trust him. please be careful.
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