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- June 16, 2010 at 2:49 am #27267
[hide]Hello Im 7 weeks PreGnant. I need to make a decision sooner rather than later on my choice to keep or abort my baby. I am in a relationship, i have just turned 22 and my boyfriend is 25. My boyfriend has his own house and a steady job. I have informed my boyfriend about the baby and im pretty sure an abortion is my best option. the trouble is im findin it hard to justify abortin this baby. My boyfriend can be quite deep at times and i never know what hes thinkin. when i informed him his response was. im 25 i have my own house and a steady job with a comfortable income. a baby is not the end of the world. if i was 19 i would have been dead cert on abortion. he says whatever i choose he is 100% behind me with support. The problem is im unsure of what to do and have told my boyfriend i am sure abortion is the best thin to do. Now ive said that i dont feel i have his support, i told him i need time to sink in the fact that i have an unplanned preGnancy as it is a shock and when i ask his opinion or i become tearful he just responds with well dont feel sorry for urself sittin around cryin. why do u want my opinion. u told me u want an abortion, u made that obvious, what do u want me to do tell u to have an abortion so it makes u feel better about it. I just want him to be clear what he wants theres never a straite answer. i feel so lost. The baby would have a home to live in, food on the table and clothes on its back. and would be loved. But i dont know if its what we both want. i dont know if a baby is what i want rite now. I need my boyfriend to be there for me and he says he is, but he doesnt show it. words are easy. advice is appreciated. Thank you. Louisa. 22.x[/hide]July 8, 2010 at 11:36 pm #27360
I didn’t see this post until just now. How are you doing hun? Did you make your decision?October 2, 2010 at 1:48 pm #27552
hi my names michelle i have been in a relationship with my partner since we was 12 i am now 23 and we are still together and very very happy.
when i was 16 i fell pregnant i had a misarriage and have had an empty hole ever since and questions that will never be answered expl: what colour eyes, hair ect.
Since the miscarriage i have not been able to get pregnant so i am seeking the help of women who fall pregnant but cant see it in their hearts to have an abortion there is so many women who can not have children its absolutley heart breaking you could be the angel a couple desperatly needs and i hope i find my angel soon ty all for listening xxxxx if anyone needs to talk about anything at all feel free to messege me firstname.lastname@example.orgOctober 4, 2010 at 1:21 am #27554
I seriously wish that i would have been 22 with a boyfriend that had his own house and a steady job when i got pregnant. Its really not the end of the world, im 16 and still is high school and im having a baby boy. My boyfriend has a job but doesnt make alot. Its alot harder for me considering i have no job and i live with my parents and i have to manage school. Im not here to judge you but i think that you should keep your baby, it will change your life for the better. :] hope things are well.October 6, 2010 at 3:58 pm #27557
I think you should keep it I was 22 when I fell pregnant with my first son and I couldnt imagine not having him right now and I had a apt, job and a car so if you have all of those things right now then I dont see why not good luck
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