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  • #11425
    AvatarAnonymous

    Hi Everyone,
    I am 14 and I am 3 months pregant……. I haven’t told my family or my boyfiends family… I do not want to get kicked out of my house. I haven’t even went to see a doctor yet should I go see one now or wait? I’m trying to find a way to tell everyone. i’m going over to my boyfiends house this weekend and I ant to tell his NaNa….. I just don’t want her yelling at me or him…. Me and him have been together for 11 months and 2 weeks.. We are so happy and we want to tell everyone we just don’t no how. We have been having kind of a hard time with his brother and sister hating me. I just don’t no what to do. Neither one of us has a job. But he said that he will get one when he turns 16 in {NOV}. He helps around the house and they pay him for that but I want to be able to have money to get what i want us to have….
    Plaes somebody tell me what I can do………
    Thank You,
    Jamie

    #12055
    AvatarLILMAMA2006

    GIRL GO TO THE DOCTOR I WATED AND THANK GOD NOTHING WENT WRONG IM 14 AND 6 MONTHS PREGNANT AND DUE DECEMBER 30 JUST GO CAUSE U AND UR BABY WILL BE HEALTHIER IF U WANT TO TALK EMAIL ME [see my profile]

    Post edited by: acas, at: 2006/10/04 01:32

    #12096
    AvatarKaileyamanda

    You DEFINATELY need to go to the doctor now. you should go as soon as you find out you are pregnant so that they can look for problems. the first months are the most vital to get in the vitimins for your baby. you need to get prenatals now and take them the rest of your pregnancy. you don’t need an RX and you can get them at virtually any store. I recommend Stuart Prenatals in the purple bottle but be sure not to ever take them on an empty stomach or you will get sick! ;( And you should tell your parents very soon! they can help you and give you support. They will be happier the sooner you do it b/c it is the adult thing to do and thats what youre going to have to become- we all have to. its hard but just be strong! good luck babe! let me know if you ever have any questions!

    Kailey 17
    30 weeks

    #12127
    AvatarAnonymous

    hey you need to tell your guys parents trust me i noe how hard it is i got pregnant at 15 and i hid it from my parents for 7 months aand they they where more upset that i hid it from them then if i would of came rite out and told them.now i have a 10 month old baby girl named hailee and my parents are the proudest grandparents i noe so just hang in there things will get better

    #12155
    Avatarvixxy

    i thought my family would kick me out, they were mad, but thats because they loved me and were in so much shock, it does take time but its better they know, u cant avoid it forever… u need help with ur situation, if u really dont want to tell your parents then go to your doctor at least, u have to make sure that u want the baby before you keep it, you have got to know all the possible choices, brining up a baby wouldnt be easy, especially with being at school, pregnancy is hard and you will NEED alot of support, someone to talk to. i think your parent would almost be greatful u told them, pleased (even if they dont act like it at first) that u could trust them enough to tell them

    #12166
    Avatarlissy012207

    You really need to go see a doctor. Not your actual doctor but an OB Gynecologist. Tell your parents asap. They can’t kick you out cuz your a minor. I mean, they can but not legally. Theres a lot of help out there. I’m 16 and 25wks (6 months and a week :-p) pregnant. You should have been getting bloodwork by now so please go see a doctor. if you need anything email me

    #12265
    AvatarAnonymous

    Post edited by: Babykatie06, at: 2006/11/07 16:29

    #12361
    Avatarmommytoele

    First, I wish you the best of luck. Second tell someone about what you’re going throuhg, and Third, Go to the doctors to be sure all is well…

    Take Care,
    Nicki

    #12887
    AvatarAnonymous

    You must go to the doctor.

    I am worried about your ability to raise a child. You are "afraid" of getting yelled at? Yes – that’s typical at your age – but how on earth can you be a mom – which will come with FAR more difficulties than being yelled at?

    You can no longer be selfish. I’m sorry -that’s the reality of having a child inside of you. Now that babies’ needs come before your own – every time – FOREVER. You can control that now by going to a doctor, getting an exam and taking your vitamins.

    If you cannot (and few 14 year olds can) be 100% selfless for the rest of your life than oyu must consider placing this baby up for adoption.

    Every child on earth deserves to ahvea parent that doesn’t consider it a sacrifice to raise them.

    You are so young. Please think about your options carefully. As much as you want it to be – the reality is that you will not likely be with this boy forever. In the real world almost nobody stays together from middle school until old age.

    Good luck – and please take care of this baby now NOW.

    #13276
    AvatarAnonymous

    SWEETIE YOU NEED TO GO SEE A DOCTOR RiGHT AWAY BECAUSE YOU NEED CERTAiN ViTAMiN PiLLS FOR YOU AND YOUR BABY . TELL YOUR & BOYFRiENDS FAMiLY ASAP !!!!!!!

    THE LONGER YOU WAiT THE HARDER iT WiLL BE !:pinch:

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