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November 13, 2006 at 11:56 pm #13066filledwithjoy1
I really need help i don’t know what to do see, me and my b/f have been together over a year. and i told him that i might be a prego. and he was so happy. and yeah we do want the baby very much, we love each other and want to start a family and a life together. but we’ve been getting into little fights almost every other day. and if i am pregnant i know the stress won’t be good for the baby how can i explain this to him w/out ending up in another scuffle.
Erica xx :dry:November 20, 2006 at 4:30 am #13245bweber
just start talking to him about different things about pregnancy….like how you will get sick and stress isn’t good for the baby and talk to him about how he as the father can help change things and help with things to make there be as little stress and such for a healthy baby…..don’t be forward about it,….just sneak it in there……get him to agree with you…..don’t try and force changes….December 19, 2006 at 2:15 pm #14061Anonymous
This is only natural, trust me! I have personally experienced this. My gf told me she was pregnant and I almost had a heart attack, I went into panic mode and couldnt function correctly. Just give him some time and he will come around just like me! It took me a few months, but I got my head back on my shoulders. Sadly she might be having a miscarriage, but its all in Gods will! Just talk to him and be honest, he should understand…December 23, 2006 at 11:37 am #14121mrs_meliss
during my pregnancy my husband and i had some fights too. stress is natural when you are going through this, especially for the first time. the baby will be ok but you are right, try to let him know it is not good to be feeling this way right now and try to talk it out and if he gets upset be able to walk away from it until you cool off. so many crazy things happen , so many emotions, dont worry, it is natural and things will be ok. the baby will be ok just try to minimize it in the future. pray for God to help you and be with you in this transitional time. No matter what a great relationship you have, pregnancy can be a crazy time but in the end, it is all worth it and you guys will become closer as you go through this learning experience.February 20, 2007 at 2:47 pm #15285mommyda
I know what you are going through. I found the best way to do things like bad news or when you have to talk about some thing that he could get a little mad about I just rube his feet or back and make him feel good as I tell him… His mom laugh’s at me because now if he has a bad day he asks for a foot rube and now he is much more relaxed then when he was a teen! hope it works for you!!!:lol:
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