This topic contains 15 replies, has 12 voices, and was last updated by Destiney M. .
- November 8, 2006 at 2:36 am #12877
I’m 14 and i got pregnant back in may. My mom couldn’t handle it so i went to live with my friend. well i went into labor and gave birth 3 months early. She wasn’t breathing on her own when she came out. The doctor said that everything was going to be okay. I went to visit her everuday while she was in the pedatric ICU. One night at about 11:30 the hospital called and told us to get there as fast as we could. they told us that the machines weren’t helping her and that we could take her off them and that she would die or we could leave her on them and she could die. So i really had no choice either way i wasn’t going to have my baby girl. It was hard but i told them to take her off the machines.. one hour later she died.. It was very hard for me. I wish she was here with me and i had pictures of her to put up here. And last week i started school again.. There was so many questions.
Congradulations to all of you out there who have healthy beautiful babies. dNovember 9, 2006 at 6:54 am #12940
wow. im so sorry for what your going through, it must be so hard. all i can say is that god must really love your daughter, to take her to heaven so soon he must have wanted her close to him. i dont no if that makes you feel any better. my son is due in just seven days and i couldnt imagine him being taken away from me like that. you must be so strong. god bless you.
gina lynnNovember 9, 2006 at 7:29 am #12942
Hi there! I miss my daughter too, but it’s not the same way as you. See, I had my daughter at 15 years old. I started court when I was 16 years old, as my daughter’s father and I no longer could stay together. It was an awful time period being with him for a year with my daughter, though, it was great because I got to keep my daughter when I was with him. See, now she is away at different times because he has visitation with her and he lives only 5 minutes away from me (Living with his parents, like I do…) He is 20 years old, and living life like everyone should, happy.
I’m sorry that you lost your child, though, she was born. I wish that she could’ve been healthy/ier. I wish things could change, though, as we all know, they can’t.
How do you handle the stress back at school? What grade are you in? If you are completed with high school, what are you majoring in college?
Right now, my daughter is away with her father. She has been gone alomst a week, she comes home on Friday. I’m so happy and I can’t wait until she comes home. There is only ONE more day when I wake up tomorrow, and I can’t wait to see how she is doing, and what she has been doing…
I wish my daughter was here too. But, this MAKES me realize HOW precious she is, how MUCH she MEANS to me. I want to thank you for making me feel good about my daughter not being with me. It makes me feel good that I know she’ll be home soon, and how much I do miss her. Thank you! I wish the best for you and yours. I am sorry.
NickiNovember 10, 2006 at 12:00 am #12957
awww hunny. I will hopefully never feel your pain.
Thats so sad what happened with your little girl. Just think she is watching over you and when you have another little child she will watch over him/her too.November 10, 2006 at 3:10 am #12971
Oh girl I am so sorry! I dont know how it feels and I am sorry you are going through so much pain. Try to stay strong and keep your chin up, and just think that she is up in heaven and she has no pain.November 15, 2006 at 12:08 am #13118
Wow! sweety im so so sorry that happened if it was up to me no one would ever have to lose a baby….but i did see the piture and i don’t care what anyone says….your baby girl would of been the most prescious miricle of your life and at least you did get to see her… that’s all you think is that she knew her mommy was always there for her…and that you did what you did because it would of been her best intrest.. and just doing that shows me that when or if you do have another child that your going to be the best mommy ever… 14 is a young age and your mother should be proud of you that you were willing to step up to your responsabilities and be a parent….hunny i know you miss your daughter but all you can do is thank god for being able to see her…and that hopefully she’s looking down on you and smiling thanking you for being there.. And don’t worry about the kids at school just try to stay away from that for a while (the kids , not school…you need that) just try to get back into your routine… i hope i hepled any….if you need to talk im here…. im only 16 and might be having a baby myself…
take care sweety…..xx Erica 🙂November 16, 2006 at 7:03 pm #13184
aw hun i am so sorry this has happend!!
at least she is now looking down on you from heaven, smiling at her mommy.
this must be so hard for you to deal with, loosing a child is so hard. I am in the same boat, except i lost my baby girl or boy at only 7 weeks.
i hope you are getting your life back on track and that evrything is okay.
im here for you if you need to talk too.
<3 AnnaNovember 17, 2006 at 6:48 pm #13207
Awe I’m so sorry :unsure: I wish I could say something but I cant because I dont know how you feel. My cousin died in my arms when I was 11 and i still think about it like it happened yesterday so I dont know if that is the same or not.. Idk your doing good for yourself. keep it up and do something with your life and have a baby when you get older and get on your feet.November 18, 2006 at 7:44 am #13215
i’M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT. i MiSCARRiED MY BABY. i MiSS MY BABY A LOT TOO & ASK GOD TO SEND ME ANOTHER ONE ALTHOUGH i DiDNT PLAN MY PREGNANCY iT MAKES ME WANT ANOTHER BABY. BUT i’M BETTER OFF KNOWiNG THAT MY BABY iS WATCHiNG OVER ME & HER NO GOOD DADDY:P THAN US WATCHiNG OVER HER. i LOVE HER & MiSS HE A LOT BUT i KNOW SHE iS BETTER OFF WiTH GOD! GOD PiCKED MY BABY TO BE AN ANGEL! 😉
E-MAiL ME iF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK SWEETiE!
MUCH LOVE & SUPPORT,
TiFFANYNovember 20, 2006 at 12:48 pm #13273
i CANT iMAGE THE PAiN THAT YOUR iN . i DO NOT KNOW WHAT i WOULD HAVE DONE iF THAT HAPPENED TO ME .
D0NT WORRY ONE DAY YOU’LL GiVE BiRTH TO A BEAUTiFUL BABY OF YOUR OWN AND YOUR LiL ANGEL WiLL BE SO HEALTHY :kiss:
YOU HAVE MY PRAYERS <3December 15, 2006 at 2:52 pm #13974
i am so sorry for your loss. you are in my prayers, be strong, i could only imagine what you are going through, if you ever need someone to talk to im here along with so many girls on the site. may god be with you and may you one day have a beautiful life with many beautiful children.December 19, 2006 at 7:31 am #14047
🙁 i really know how you feel… i had the same thing happen to me. i lost my son to premature birth. so i know .. i really do… i am bawling right now… damn… i dont have anything more to say i guess… so write me sometime.February 15, 2007 at 8:15 am #15194
I wish i could give you the words.I just read your story today.I have a healthy baby, my life is full of good things as it may seem but im still so sad.I have a new bf but i dont trust ppl no more,I try to concentrate on her but i think im not prepared,not yet.I feel so selfish and so unhuman,,,sometimes i want to cry.Its been only 2 months and i can still conceive life w/o her, and im so scared my period will never come and im prego again ( my quarentine and pèriod altogether lasted for nearly 55 days!!) im obsessed with babies, im so obsessed with pregnancy and post pregnancy..i think it all went off so fast.I have nightmares about being prego again,about being alone, sometimes i feel so so sad i want to die although if i have to resume my life id say im happy.I dont know the pain you are going thru,,,but i feel so so bad im not a better mother and im not thankful, at least a lil bit more, for all the things I have.:(March 7, 2007 at 9:45 am #15652
I just read your story and I hope and pray that you have been able to heal some since then. What a big thing to go through at your age. I am so sorry and I hope you get the chance to have another baby when you get married someday. I know you will be a great mom then and that you will never take your kids for granted like some do . God bless you and sign my guest book if you want to talk sometime MegMarch 22, 2007 at 7:10 pm #16087
siobhan ann wilson
I AM DEEPLY AND TRUELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
STAY STRONGMarch 23, 2007 at 8:48 am #16108
Im so sorry to hear about that I couldnt imagine that happening with my child… Not even for a second… It would be hard going throughout 6 months of pregnancy, meeting you child, finally having him or her there, then losing them.. again I am so so so sorry for your loss, questions that others ask about your child will always bring you down, and its always going to be hard.. but hold your head high. have hope..
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