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- June 2, 2007 at 3:36 am #17593
I had my baby boy..Aden Matthew on Sunday May 27th at 7:27 p.m….he had dark hair, and very dark blue eyes..He weighed 7 pounds 7 ounces..and was the the most precious thing I have ever seen! I never got to hear him cry, but I did get to hold him! He was a stillborn…. I miss him so much!!June 2, 2007 at 4:55 am #17599
aww honey i am SO sorry for your loss but i kinda know how you feel…about a month ago i lost the only thing that meant everything to me…and it was horrible…i never even got to hold mine…i miscarried at 2 months…that doesnt seem like much but it was to me…and your always going to miss him…but he’ll always be in heaven waiting for you…all you have to do is when you think of him…imagine him in a cloud…sleeping or smiling at you…and it will help a little bit…hes in good hands…thats what i do and it does help me sometimes…im sorry that you lost your son…but stay strong and just live for him…dont let it bring you down to something that he wouldnt want you to be…ok…
Love —SamanthaJune 3, 2007 at 4:41 am #17616
We, especially the parents, will never really understand such things. I’m so sorry for you and hope you find peace somehow. Please reach out to others who’ve been through this also should you find you need support from others besides your family. There are many support groups for grieving parents of babies and/or those who’ve had miscarriages and stillbirths. Take care and know that we’re praying for you.June 3, 2007 at 6:29 am #17617
wow i feel your pain im so sorry for your loss i cant tell you how to feel any better. i just had a miscarrage and had to go through the whole dev process on the 29th of may, i didnt know the sex of my baby so we named our baby jamie morgan [ ]. I hope you will feel better soon do things to rem your baby boy thats what im doing i have a mem. box n i put things in there if you ever need anyone to talk to you can email me or send me a mess threw here. mommy6June 10, 2007 at 4:22 pm #17707
My first niece, Emma, was stillborn at 3 days overdue.
The pain is overwhelming, I know. All I can tell you is to hang in there, and the pain will subside, never go away, but get less and less at time goes by.
You’ll remember all the fun times during your pregnancy.
My mom had a miscarriage when I was 2, but that is in NO WAY THE SAME!!!
I think about my sister, and how she carried Emma for 9 months, and just to send her back to her original "Home": Heaven.
Your baby boy is there now, watching over you, and protecting you.
If you ever need to talk, I have some referral sites that may be of some help, as they are support forums for parents and families of those who have lost children in any form.
Take care, sweetie, and I will be praying for you ~ Jessica
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