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November 10, 2009 at 3:39 pm #26095Karien Beukes
i lost my baby on the 20th of October 2009, i just needed to tell someone how extremely sad i am! everyone tells you that it will get better, or you will have more children, or that’s just the way things go, that is NOT what i want to hear! it feels like my heart was ripped out of my chest, i feel empty and alone! i want to mourn my child but have no grave no real connection, just the knowing that my baby was inside me and i knew he was there and i loved him, how do i recover? how do i mourn a miscarriage? please give advise?November 11, 2009 at 1:03 am #26096Stockton09
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby last November, I was eight weeks pregnant. I was so depressed. But time made the pain slowly fade. I wish you the best of luck, and I want you to know only time can heal you, but you will never fully recover. Just remember to hold your head up, and don’t stop loving your sweet baby. No matter what anyone says the baby is still your baby, and your still it’s mommy. It’s probably in heaven looking after you, loving you. Just as you love the sweet baby. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.November 11, 2009 at 3:29 pm #26100Karien Beukes
Thank you!November 11, 2009 at 7:06 pm #26101Stockton09
Your welcome, if you ever need to talk you can message me or whatever.November 12, 2009 at 10:19 am #26105BabyGirl
i know what it is like to lose i child i have lost three in the matter of a year. my twin girls Feb 19th 2009 at 26 weeks and now my thrid daughter today Nov 11th 2009 at 23 weeks
it is hard and i still mourn for my little ones but their is nothing we can really do about it God was just not ready for us to have children yet and he needed our little ones more then we did. we now have our little angels in heaven with the Lord watching over us and we will meet them one day and hold them in our arms as we were supposed to.
their isnt much advise to give let yourself mourn for as long as you need to i know it feels like the end of the world but it truely isnt. you will one day have more children and you will love them just the way you would love your lost child you will never forget your lost child though. i am so very sorry about your loss i hope things get well.
God Bless our Angel BabiesDecember 27, 2009 at 6:15 am #26287iswaggaliciious
Sorry for your lost I can’t imagine what it would feel like if I lost my boy. I hope that you will feel better even tho right now it does not feel like it. The thing is it was meant to happen and unfortunately you could not prevent it 🙁 I cant do much to help you but hope that you will feel better …
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