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July 21, 2010 at 11:10 pm #27378teach101
I have three options…
3. Adaption (Adapting to becoming a mother)
My boyfriend of three years is requesting the abortion. When first presented with the positive pregnancy test… and further the confirmation with the doctor.. I wasn’t even thinking an abortion. My boyfriend insists he is not ready for a child, neither am I.. but killing the baby just devistates me. I am almost 5 weeks along. The baby is forming its lungs and kidneys. A week ago, I convinced myself to get an abortion. But at the back of my head knew It would be VERY difficult if not impssible to go through with. Now that I’ve started experienceing the signs…. vomiting, fatigue, constant nausea… I am further thinking I will not be able to go through with it.
I have a career. I live with my boyfriend who has a great career. There are no financial constraints. My boyfriend, every time I try and explain to him my feelings, says we’ve made our decision just remember that. to I have an appt at an abortion clinic . I don’t even want to go. I know once I start talking about the abortion I will get sick. I just need help from experienced women… I just don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to say to my boyfriend.July 22, 2010 at 6:43 am #27380Anonymous
sweetie that baby inside you has life. that babies heart is beating! you dont not have to get an abortion at all! there are other options. there are different kinds of adoptions you can look at. there are help lines you can call TOLL FREE 1866 942 6466 or the option line 1800 395 HELP.. dont give into what they want or believe..im praying for you and always here! please let me know how youre doing and whats going on! email me anytime.
TekaJuly 22, 2010 at 12:21 pm #27381Anonymous
I KNO HOW YOU FEEL BUT YOU ARE THE ONE CARRYING THISCHILD AND NO MAN HASTHE RIGHT TO TELL U WHEN AND WHERE TOCREATE A CHILD I THINK YOU SHOULD GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING IF HE LOVES YOU HIS FIRST WORDS WOULD HAVE BEEN PLEASE KEEP MY BABY I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE I REGRET EVERYDAY I DNT THINK I’LL EVERY FORGIVE MY SELF I LET OTHERS VIEWS TAKE OVER AND I TRICKED MYSELF INTO BELIEVING AN ABORTION WAS RIGHT AND MY BOYFRIENDS OF TWO YEARSWASAGAINST IT BUT I DID ITANYWAY AND I REGRET IT AND I KNOW HE BLAMES ME .. BUT THERE ISASAYING MAMASBABY DADDIESM MAYBE NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IF LIFE A MAN IS NOT OBLIGATED TO BE THERE FOR THEIR CHILD BUT ASA MOTHER YUOUR ALWAYS BE THERE IF HE DECIDES TO PACK UP AND LEAVE YOU WILL STILL BE MAMA WHO THAT CHILD WILL LOOK TO FOR EVERYTHING. NEVER SHOULD AMAN WHO LOVES YOU RERQUEST OR DEMAND A ABORTION ITSCALLEDLIFE AND STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE YOU AREWORTHY OF KEEPING YOUR CHILD IF YOU DECID BNOT TO KEEP YOUR BABY AT LEAST LOOK AT ADOPTION THERE ARE SO MANY WOMAN WHO WANT KIDS BUT CANT HAVE THEM CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY ..PLEASE KEEOP IN TOUCH I AM HERE FOR YOU I UNDERSTANDJuly 23, 2010 at 1:54 am #27384StacieKilbride17
read my story it tells you everything that happens when you go through abortion there are facts and things that are important that you cant forget. so read it and see, and get all the imformation you need before you make a desicion dont be pressured into it just because your boyfreind wants you toJuly 24, 2010 at 2:31 pm #27390baby_travis
everybody knows killing is a sin..especially an innocent child.. but girl this blessing was grant for u.. u should keep it.. if the world is against ur decision its not the reason for u to listen to them,,even on my situation me and my boyfriend broke up but its not the reason for me to take away my angel’s life..July 24, 2010 at 9:49 pm #27393CookieD16
honey its okay to be confused, but make the decision that you feel is right. if ur against abortion, tell your boyfriend…he has no choice but to accept that there will be a baby comin whether he likes it or not…its nearly impossible not to start lovin a child once you realize ur havin one, so i kno u cant jus abort it and move on in life…just do what will make you happy
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