I’m 18, was forced (if i may say) to have an abortion and i regret more than anything in this world. I can’t study or do anything because I believe that i was meant to have this baby. I have a 23 year old fiance, and he has a job, he is a cooking chef. I want to ask him to try again and I know he will say yes. The thing is, if i decide to have a child now, I know i will be more than happy, but I will have no studies (i am an artist, a writer, and i have diplomas in singing so im sure i can find a job in that). Also, i will have to leave france and go to another country to raise my child as my fiace cannot get a job in paris so easily (its practically impossible). I know, and i feel it in my heart that this is the life i want, the life i need, but i’m still so scared to leave my family behind and everything. I’m so scared to be taking the wrong decision. Can someone please give me their advice? I have no one to talk to :'( Please help me…
Honey if you feel in your heart that having a baby is the best thing then do it. Its your life. Im 18 and i have kids and its the best thing in the world but also the hardest. Remember it takes more than love to raise a child.
Thank your answer 🙂 Yes, I do know it takes more than love to raise a child, but I’m just soooo scared, even though I know that’s what I want more than anything, to be taking the wrong decision 🙁
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