Me and Tristan were fighting yesterday, about us moving to NC…He is going into the air force…During the argument he told me to go f**k myself, right in front of our one and a half year old son. I told him not to cuss at me in front of the kids and he told me not to tell him what to do…I was really mad and yelled f**k you. He grabbed my shoulder and pushed me down on the couch hard…I don’t know what to say to him. He’s never touched me before…He left for work without apologizing, and hasn’t called like he normally does…I don’t know what to do…I feel really really bad…We had plans tonight, my friends are taking the kids but I’m not so sure I want to…
Hi Hunny. I would never make excuses for a man who raises his hands to a woman… whether or not it’s a slap or even a strong push…. there’s no excuse for it. I’ve been in an abusive relationship and it usually starts off “small” and then escalates into what you usually see on Oprah.
You have to talk to him about what happened. Even if he’s going through a rough patch at work, there’s never anything that justifies hurting you. You have no reason to feel bad about anything.
Much love and support
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