I am 17 years old and my boyfriend of 2 years is 18. I am pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been down this road before.I was pregnant at 15 also with the same guy. My mom forced me into an abortion. Now i am pregnant again and i am not to sure how to tell her that we are not letting the same thing happen again and we are goin to keep it. Also his family didnt know about the first so how do we break the news to his half too?
so FYI for this time around it is very illegal to force any girl into an abortion even if she is a minor! so just let ur mom know that this time if she tries you will inform the police (even if u really won’t). so just tell them, i suggest the two of u sitting all parents down and telling them, maybe not all together, but u need to tell them soon so u can get into a doc and start ur prenatal care…..
Well i think your mom will probably be a bit more understanding now that you are a little older! If you are worried about your mom making you do the same thing i would wait til you are too far along to have an abortion lol. I think when you tell your families, you should make a point of saying that you have been together for 2 years, you are young adults and are responsible too. Definitely sit down with each family separately otherwise you may get them ganging up on you. And just tell them straight and strong, that you are going to keep this bean. If they try to pursuade you not to just say something like ‘We have already made our decision. We are ready to take this on’. hope i helped 🙂
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