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    Avatarprettytoni23

    nov. 5th makes year two since i hace gotten an abortion. It hurts because i know i killed something that i loved just to live comfy, but it also hurts because the clinic preferated my uterus and i needed a major sergury where they removed one fallopian tube fix my uterus gave me about 6 or more pints of blood and put me on a resporator. i have been ti sites for post abortion but none could really help me :(. I really want a baby now that im ready and i dont think i could have one..i have tried and failed. last month i found out that i have a cyst on my ovary and next month around the anaversary of my abortion i have to go in and see if i need sergury. im scared and dont know what to do or where to go. no one seems to understand how i feel. I hurts so bad and every time i turn around someone tells me that its nothing women go through abortions everyday and are fine…please someone help me please. i cant take it anymore. i cant seem to get my self out of the hole of sorrow i feel everytime i think about it. and not thinking about it hurts even more. help me someone.

    #19479
    Avatarkez_mummy_2_skye

    i know its hard but try to stay positive. I tried for what seemed ages but was 8mths after coming off the pill and nothing happened, my mum had to have fertility treatment to have me and i thought thats what id have to do so i saw a gyno to see what they could do, not to my knowledge i was actually pregnant then, lol! lucky they didnt start doing stuff.
    It WILL happen when the time is right

    #19481
    AvatarSadie17

    hiya, im so sorry for all you have been through! i havent had an abortion but i know people who have and what it does to them, i did have an ovarian cyst and believe me your lucky they know about in time, i was taken into hospital with appendicitis, it wasn’t until i had the operation that they found an ovarian cyst the size of a tennis ball, i had to hav reconstructive surgery on my ovary and have a scar the same as a ceserean across my bikini line, by knowing that you have a cyst early they can treat it with medication, im sure u will be fine, and remember you will have a baby when it is the right time i believe everything in life happens for a reason.
    and also stop trying for a baby so hard, i know it sounds silly but the more you try the less chances you have just enjoy the intimate time with your partner and see what happens, best of luck to you x

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    Avatarprettytoni23

    ty for the words they help. i just wish i had some good luck for once.

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