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December 8, 2006 at 5:05 am #13770Mia3
Hey Ladies, Well the good news is that I decided that there was no way in hell that I could have another abortion, but I did start my period last night which means I wouldn’t have had to make the decision anyways and I have to say that I was actually kind of sad. Once I made up my mind about no abortion, it was like I was excited about the thought of another baby. I guess everthing worked out for the best, but yeah I am a little disappointed about not being pregnant. I know I must sound crazy right now because one minute I really do not want to be pregnant and the next minute I’m sad because I’m not! I really do appreciate the support from everyone here, you all helped me out a lot. So thank you for taking the time to help out a stranger.!:)December 8, 2006 at 8:05 am #13774dillon12
hey thats great. even though you are not preg you still made the decision and thats great it shows that you are strong. it think most of us feel sad if you make a decision and that it doesnt work out. i feel like that, i know that i dont really want a child at the mo but every time my period come i knder feel a bit sad coz a little part of me would love to be preg. hope everything work out the way you want it to. gud luck 😀December 9, 2006 at 2:30 am #13793Hermia2012
hey that is great… sorry that you are not. but hey now you knwo that you couldnt go through with an abortion and that show how strong you are.
much loveDecember 10, 2006 at 6:57 am #13809Katita29
I was in your same position basically. I was convinced by my ex-boyfriend’s family that I needed to get an abortion. I thought it was the right decision at first because we were both young. But a part of me hesitated to get it done because I knew in my heart I really didnt want to kill my child!! Then I finally decided to keep my child no matter what. So when I went to get my 1st ultasound done at 10 wks the Doctor discovered that I had a sac but no baby! I was devasted because now i wanted to keep my child and I thought that a "natural miscarriage" would make me feel better but it didn’t. The thing is i got a 2nd opinion from a second doctor that the baby may just be hidden or my conception date is wrong and he’s actually 5-7 wks old instead. I still have pregnancy symptoms and no spotting so hopefully I am still pregnant!
How much later (how many wks into the pregnancy)did u start bleeding? The wait is killing me!
how are you coping? Is it harder than you thought it was going to be? Im preparing myself for the worst but I still have hope. God bless you!
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