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January 19, 2017 at 7:07 am #29155Broken heart
Hi guys. I need some help because i am so much confused to the point that I am now deciding whether to have an abortion or not eventhough im now in my 12 weeks pregnancy. I really want to know if my pregnancy is owned by my bf/ my lover. Last October 2 my lover and I had an intimacy and on the other days/weeks i had also w/ my bf. October 16 i had maybe my mens or implantation bleeding. November 23 i found out positive p.t. and Dec. 11 i had my first ultrasound and find out that i was 7 weeks and 2 days pregnant. I am now confused if October 16 was an implantation bleeding or not. PLEASE Please help.January 19, 2017 at 7:30 am #29156Molly
Hi Broken Heart-
It is really hard to say whether that was definitely implantation bleeding. It would be best to ask your doctor about that…but the timing seems possible.
I really hope you will spend some time on the website reading the stories from other girls who have been in your situation…..please believe me when I say abortion is NOT the answer to anything! Those who have been there say it has left them with feelings of depression, guilt, feeling alone, leads to addictions, relationship issues and most of all, never knowing how wonderful your baby is and what YOUR child will accomplish in the world!! Next President, superstar on American Idol, scientist, inventor, fantastic mother, mentor, teacher, etc! You see you will never know if you choose to end the life of your child!
Did you know that at 12 weeks your baby has a heartbeat, respiratory system, brain waves, eyes, fingers, fingernails, toes can already wave and suck their thumb?
This tiny human is perfectly developed with long, tapering fingers, feet and toes and whose skin is almost transparent with a highway of delicate arteries and veins visible to the ends of the fingers.
By 10 weeks, 20 tiny baby teeth are forming in the gums, she squints, swallows, moves her tongue, and if you stroke her palm, will make a tight fist. The toes will develop in the next few days and brain waves can be measured and she will react to loud noises.
Did ya know? By nine weeks the developing baby can hiccup and react to load noises.
The heart, no larger than a poppy seed, has been beating since day 18 when you’re just four days late for your menstrual period, and by 21 days it is pumping, through its own closed circulatory system, blood whose type is different from yours.
At twelve weeks you have started your second trimester, your baby is now in its fetal stage and measures 2 1/2 to 3 inches in length. Fully formed the heart rate can be heard with a special instrument called a Doppler and just as adults, the fetal baby can experience the rapid eye movement (REM) sleep of dreams.
From 12 weeks, they can stretch, kick and leap around the womb – well before the mother can feel movement.
The body is more complex than ours. The fetal baby has several extra parts to his body which he needs only so long as he lives inside his mother. He has is own space capsule, the amniotic sac. He has his own lifeline, the umbilical cord, and he has his own root system, the placenta. These all belong to the baby himself and not to his mother, all developed from his original cells.
I hope you will read over the website and look at the resources. Please let me know how else I can help!
Praying for you…you CAN do this, being a GREAT Mom! Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t!
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