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April 13, 2010 at 3:12 am #26971Anonymous
im 15 me and my boyfriend (hes 16) have been togther a year on the 28th of april and we started havin sex when we were togther 7 months. we used condoms and i took the mornin after pill 2 times i cant go on the pill because i take other tablets so we just stuck with condoms but about 3 months ago we suddenly didnt use condoms or protection he justs takes it out when he is about to come sometimes he comes inside me. couple of months ago i told him i wanted a baby so much but he said now wasnt the right time because he was starting a college course to have a better future for me and him he said having a baby later is better he than said that having a baby is a hard thing to go through and when it does happen he wants to be with me every step of it. we talked ages ago about babies and we agreed tht we will wait till im around the age of 19/20 but i cant wait tht long. his sister got pregant when she was 17 shes 21 now and she got really good support from thier parents and i think they will do the same for us. if i get pregant i think he would wanr a abortion but i know for a fact i dont want a abortion but he dont want a baby so if i get pregant what should i do????April 14, 2010 at 1:52 am #26973iswaggaliciious
Ok you need tough love loca nothing less. What are you thinking?! 15 and TTC? what? First off your b/f would get locked up because you cannot legally consent sex so it would be statutory rape so your b/f would go to jail and have a sex offender stat. for the rest of his life. If he gets locked up and will be a sex offender and comes near your child you will get it taken away since you would legally expose it to dangerous people. How is that being responsible. Before you make a decision like that you got to think it through. You are 15 and how will you support the baby a 15 and 16 year old cannot possibly work enough to make enough money to support a child. Unless you are famous. What you expect your mother to be helping you out? AGAIN how is that responsible? Im a mother of a 2 week old and it aint all fun and games trust me you need to have transportation and money and time to take care of em and a place.April 14, 2010 at 10:58 pm #26977Anonymous
i was thinking of waiting till i was 16 but than today i was talking to him about college because im starting college in september and i was thinking over waiting till after college and when i have more to offer the baby like transport and have money xxApril 17, 2010 at 6:25 pm #26990Teenmom89
I AGREE…. BBY’S ARE ALOT OF WORK.. FROM FORMULA,DIAPERS,WIPES,CLOTHES,!!! IT ALL ADD’S UP.
AND WAKING UP EVERY OTHER HR.
I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT I HAVE 2 LIL ONES BOTH IN DIAPERS.. ITS VERY HARD WORK EVEN IF YOU DO HAVE GOOD SUPPORT. JUST WAIT..
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