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May 7, 2011 at 12:54 am #28220AmyBloomer
My boyfriend and I were together for over a year(on and off mainly on) we broke up the day before Easter. Things right now are harder for me. He started dating this girl not even a week after we broke up, they started dating Wednesday after we broke up and well we are trying to be friends but I can’t get past the feelings that I have for him and the things that we shared together. I want to be with him but I KNOW that he doesn’t want to be with me after I have my son because he says that my body won’t be the same as it was before, I know this and he knew this from the moment that I told him that I was pregnant. I think that he is just scared but I don’t see why he had to run away at a time that I need him the most. I don’t know how to deal with being on my own after being with someone for so long. Being together for over a year is a big step for me and to watch him walk away after that really is hard. I don’t want him out of my life but it seems like he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a mother or even someone who is pregnant with a kid that is not his. I am just scared that I won’t be able to find anyone like him. I am only 16 but when you know you love someone you just know because of the feeling you get when your with them and the feeling that you get when you kiss them. I love him and I don’t want him to be out of my life… I am scared please help!May 7, 2011 at 8:05 am #28221Meg11
Awww, I’m so sorry honey…I can really relate, I got pregnant with my son and told his dad, it was about a week and a half later that he went out of town for work and told me he would call me in like 5 days when he would be back, He did NOT call me for 5 MONTHS….By then I had found out he accused me of getting pregnant on purpose and he had a girlfriend named MEGAN, she has 4 kids…I was LIVID, My name is Meagan, I have HIS child in my womb yet he DOESN’T call me for 5 MONTHS and is with a girl named MEGAN with 4 kids that are NOT his…it hurt so horribly bad….I genuinely feel the pain in your heart but you know what? If he doesn’t want to pull his head out of his butt and see what he is missing out on then that is HIS loss, God can and will bring someone MUCH BETTER into your life…You just hang in there and take care of YOU and BABY! God will take care of you and by being a good mommy and focusing on bettering yourself you WILL attract the kind of MAN who deserves you…TRUST ME! I am here ANYTIME you need to talk, vent or have questions…I have now been married for going on 5 years, he is a wonderful man, I had 2 kids from 2 dads and he treats me like untarnished gold! There are great honorable men out there, don’t settle for less than the best….Much Love and Prayers….Meg, firstname.lastname@example.org
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