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    Avatarcali

    My name is Cali, and i am 17 years old.
    I have scoliosis and it causes my pelvis to tilt and my uterus to shift. I have been going to the doctor for it for about a year, but they did an exam on me last time and told me that I wouldn’t be able to conceive a child in the next year because of the way its shifting. I have a boyfriend of a year now, and he is so supportive and understanding. we have talked about this a lot and how we both want a child of our own. So we have tried to have a baby, and I am still waiting to take a test. but I have been overthinking it and questioning if I should be doing this.. I have done so much research and I have looked at all the possibilities, but I want to have a child made from me. Even if me and my boyfriend don’t get married, at least I will have a baby. because i know i will regret not doing it in the future, but i am so young and not prepared for everything to come. i don’t care about losing my teenage years, ive never cared for partying or anything. but i am scared to raise a baby when i am 17.
    I NEED advice. i need to hear everything. I need to know if this is worth it and if i should keep trying.

    #29041
    AvatarMelody04

    Oh you sound so sweet. Take your time! Having a baby is the hardest thing to do. Being a mom takes a lot and doing it at such a young age makes it even more difficult. Having a baby is a wonderful thing, but you have your whole life to do so. I had my baby, not planned, when I was 17. And yes she was totally worth all of the work that it took to raise her, but it would have been much easier if I were older. I love that you’re so passionate about life, but I do think it would benefit you to wait a few more years.

    #29042
    Avatarcali

    im not sure if you read the whole thing, i would not have a baby for fun. i only have about a year left then i wont have the choice.. i cant wait a few more years.

    #29043
    AvatarMelody04

    Oh I’m sorry, I misread that part. Well I don’t know you personally and can’t say what is right for you. I know having a baby at 17 is extremely hard to do. Not impossible, but it’s a lot of work. I would advise you to continue to talk to your doctors and your parents. Get as much advise as you can. I’ll be praying for you as you make your decision.

    #29044
    Avatarcali

    Thank you so much. I know it will be very hard to do, I just need to know if its worth it i guess. :dry:

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